Was not aware that NTBTSTM was not written at all and was just kinda structured in the editing room, which is both impressive considering how well constructed it feels as a story, and also deranged lol
ENABLER GOD: If I grant you this miracle you have to stop worshiping me. Forever. We're done. I shouldn't even be talking to you. That's not how prayer works.
ME: A most wise boundary o king of kings.
ENABLER GOD: I want to believe you. I do. You have so much power over me...
"Nikki isn't the villain in Obsession, Bear is." CORRECT! That does not, however, prevent the movie from treating her like a psycho girlfriend trope. The movie is playing to male anxieties while pretending to be a feminist text on "nice guys" trying to possesses women.
100% of the trans woman who have claimed to have put some effort into mothering me have slept with me at least once and it’s given me a second, more complex, set of mommy issues
Cagey-from-trauma people who want advice on opening up may find this trick of mine useful: instead of admitting something vulnerable, gradually disclose the consequences of the thing, without telling people those consequences’ cause. It’s the best way to predict how they’d react.