i believe that people's actions can make it clear that they have no respect or regard for you, regardless of what they say.
their actions clearly indicate that they don't value you. when you notice this, take it for what is.
Having kids made me realize that you really can't play with your life. You can't get locked up, you can't land in a hospital bed, you can't even slip up for a second . I had to humble myself real fast ! One bad move and it's over not just for me, but for my kids too