As a man, whenever you stop or totally reduce the time u give ur gal trust me that's the time u will start losing her coz there are many guys out side there that are going to give her the time she needs, the jokes that will make her forget or start losing feelings for you...
We make mistakes not becoz we mean it but just we luck the right person to tell what is wrong , you try telling mum but she is busy wiz work, u call dad but he can't pick, same reason u end up making wrong decisions or even pipo around u give u wrong advice.
Hope u feel the pain