I find people get mean and spew hate when you mention parts of your life that go against societal norms.
I was guilty of it too until I realised it was because I was jealous and projecting and stopped that sh!t 💁🏻♀️
My therapist told me that my inability to accept help and chronic stubbornness isn’t actually me just being a self sufficient Boss Ass Bitch…
Its more likely because everyone I was supposed to be able to depend on has abandoned me or betrayed my trust and I’m protecting myself
I don’t know who needs to hear this but:
People are going to believe whatever narrative they want to believe for a plethora of reasons. 99.9% of those reasons are to do with their own insecurities.
Just keep doing you.
It’s 2023…
Why are we still using “I faked my orgasms” as an insult when we break up with a guy
That’s just sad for you, Sis. Communicate and get your goodies, why are settling for sub-par sex.
I don’t know who needs to hear this but:
People are going to believe whatever narrative they want to believe for a plethora of reasons. 99.9% of those reasons are to do with their own insecurities.
Just keep doing you.
Happy pride to:
🌈Everyone who hasn’t felt safe enough to be their true authentic self yet
🌈Those who can’t celebrate through fear of losing their life
🌈Those who are still figuring it all out
My therapist told me that my inability to accept help and chronic stubbornness isn’t actually me just being a self sufficient Boss Ass Bitch…
Its more likely because everyone I was supposed to be able to depend on has abandoned me or betrayed my trust and I’m protecting myself
I find people get mean and spew hate when you mention parts of your life that go against societal norms.
I was guilty of it too until I realised it was because I was jealous and projecting and stopped that sh!t 💁🏻♀️
I think today is one of the hardest of my adult life.
Yet unlike other tough days: I’m safe, I’m taking care of myself and I know I’ll be okay and that’s growth.
This too shall pass.
Yes, things are tough right now but at 23 I had to write my will and what I wanted my son to do with my ashes in terms of jewellery if I didn’t make it.
So… bring on today✌🏻👏🏻