Love is a verb. If they keep making time for you, that's love. If they keep holding space for you when you're going through a hard time, that's care. If they keep trying their best to be there for you, that's effort. Acknowledge and thank them. Don't let devotion feel invisible.
I love a man who dates me after he already has me.
📍I love being asked out.
📍I love dressing up.
📍I love the flowers.
📍I love exploring different restaurants.
📍I love being driven although I own my own car.
📍I love the surprise gifts for no reason.
📍I love dates in different city’s.
📍I love the unexpected cash app.
📍I love the support to help me reach my goals.
I love it all plus more… 🫶🏽💕
Women, stop breaking your spirit trying to prove you’re “enough” for a man who’s already decided he wants more than one heart to play with. You can love him deeply, stay loyal, cook his favorite meals, show up in every way possible...and if he’s built to cheat, he will. Because cheating has nothing to do with you and everything to do with his lack of self-control, integrity, and respect. You can’t teach a man morals. You can’t love him into honesty. You can’t hold a man down who’s determined to keep wandering. The truth is, loyalty isn’t earned...it’s chosen. It’s a reflection of his character, not your worth. So stop exhausting yourself trying to secure a man’s loyalty. The right man won’t make you beg for consistency, question your place, or compete for his attention. When a man truly values you, you won’t have to remind him what loyalty looks like… he’ll already be living it.
I literally been letting go and let GOD! He literally been blessing me.. my biggest problem was I never put myself first & these past few months he put me in situations that opened my eyes to reality.