Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due.
Healing is realizing you also hurt people, even if it wasn’t intentional. It’s allowing yourself to say, “I didn’t mean to cause pain, but I see now that I did and I’m willing to grow from it.” This awareness makes you honest. And honesty is where real transformation begins.
It does… but only if you do the self work. Unlearn the stuff you were taught growing up because most of it comes from unhealed people around us. Learn about financial literacy, go to therapy if you need to, travel & make memories even if you have to do it alone or with 1 person.
Remember: perception is reality. Create the life you really want for yourself. Don’t worry about who’s looking, watching or cheering for you. Your tribe and support system will naturally build itself.
Oh… take ur vitamins, drink water and mind ur business.
Most importantly, keep God first and everything will work itself out 🤗
If we can’t joke about our trauma your not the friend for me dark humor is literally my fave how do expect to heal from things if you can’t laugh about it 😂