I think stressing over a man is pointless. The choices they make are completely out of your control & their behaviour has nothing to do with you. All you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn’t care for you properly out.
Whether u spend 5 lakhs or 50 lakhs or 5 Crores on your wedding, people won’t stop gossiping about u. They come for food & good pictures. They won’t give a fuck even if u get divorced next week. Only your family members & few close friends are genuinely happy + concerned about u.
Imagine u are managing multiple critical patients in the ward alone, it’s been 12 hours u haven’t eaten anything, u finally go to Drs room to take 10 mins break, the moment u start taking 1st bite attendant knocks on the door “Sir patient ko sans nai a raha” & u rush outside 1/2.
If someone loves me someday, I hope it’s because of who I became, not simply because of the features I was born with. I didn’t choose my smile, my skin, my eyes, or the way my face comes together. But I hope I’m loved for the warmth in my hugs, the stories behind my scars, the kindness in my eyes, my mind, my passions, my strange little hobbies, and every imperfect thing that makes me human. I don’t want to be admired like a trophy. I want to be loved like a soul.
Ya Allah ,I know I have no right to demand anything from You. Every blessing I have today is already more than I deserve. But if I may ask for one thing…
Please allow me to receive what my heart has been quietly praying for. Not because I believe I’ve earned it, But because I trust in Your grace and Your perfect will.
If the desires You’ve placed in my heart are aligned with Your plans for me, please make a way in Your perfect time.
Give me the patience to wait without losing hope. Give me the faith to trust You when the answer is “not yet.” And if what I’m asking for isn’t what You have prepared for me, then change my heart until it desires what You desire for me. Above all, Lord, don’t let me lose my faith while I’m waiting.
Let Your grace sustain me, Your peace calm me, and Your love remind me that Your plans will always be better than my own.
Once I master my ADHD, stop waiting for my life to begin, accept what I can’t change, finish cleaning my room, stick to a schedule, drink water, meditate, organize the pile of paper, become consistent, build confidence, and learn to love myself it’s absolutely over for you all.
the older i get, the more i see why it's important to only keep people around who have the same morals, manners, and sense of consideration as you. you reach a certain stage in life, where chaos and disrespect no longer deserve a seat at your table
While I was in med school, every time my dad called me “doctor,” my heart would skip a beat and I’d quietly say “in sha Allah” to myself before answering.
Today, he called me “doctor” and I found myself smiling, saying “Alhamdulillah” instead…
Alhamdulillah, always.
No matter how things turn out, I’m learning to be proud of myself for every step I took along the way. For the days I showed up even when I felt unsure. For trying when it would’ve been easier to stop. For growing in ways that didn’t always look impressive but mattered deeply to me. I don’t want to measure my worth only by outcomes anymore. The effort, the patience, the quiet resilience all count too.