Aria

She/They/He - Aria/Ari - GenderlessFluidgender/Bisexual/demiromantic - Gay little witch - 21
Love my very smart girlfriend who very smartly deleted twitter

[Aria @MinkCinnamon]

Welp... really wasn't anything in specific, but just got tired of 70% of the posts here being rage-inducing

so off to bluesky with me...

Adios y'all

https://t.co/ZBqWPdvtKr

[Aria @MinkCinnamon]

They can be promises to myself, to a friend, or just like general adult responsibilities.

It makes it really hard to be a "functional adult"

it's annoying

[Aria @MinkCinnamon]

ADHD for me is a horrid flip-flop between making a fuck ton of promises while I have the energy to keep them, only to have that energy just *leave* when it's actually time to keep the promises

[Aria @MinkCinnamon]

being poly is great, highly recommend. We get to share the work of making cute girls feel loved <3

But it is NOT for everyone.
If you get jealous easily, or feel jealous strongly, it's just not for you.
Because there WILL be times you feel jealous.

[Aria @MinkCinnamon]

yeah... this is just true.

Like, I'm poly, happily, I love my girlies <3

But even then, it works because I am NOT a person who needs a lot of attention to feel loved.

And even then, at 3 polycule members, I do feel my time is stretched thin between the two of them.

[🟢 kat-type @uckersSket]

Polyamory is cool and all but so many transfems jump into it whilst still being emotionally immature and very poorly equipped to deal with jealousy and insecurity, and you can't run from those issues forever by Acquiring More Girlfriends

[Aria @MinkCinnamon]

(Like I was...)

[Aria @MinkCinnamon]

Gonna use my experience growing up as a man + being one sometimes + nearly going down the MRA pipeline at 16 to add to this.

misandry is only real if you consider it a subsection of misogyny.

Every systemic injustice against men is because of misogynistic actions/systems/ideas

[Aria @MinkCinnamon]

(and that's if I take what they say at face value. If I assume their movement is actually "grassroots". instead of being astroturfed to make opposing feminism look like it makes sense to impressionable 16 year old boys too inexperienced to avoid right-wing indoctrination)