Diya Minty

🌻 Psychologist • Counsellor • Life coaching
🪴Wellness, books & becoming
📍London
Contact me to book sessions ⤵️

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Changing as a person sounds exciting until you realise how much of it involves outgrowing, grieving and letting go. Growth doesn’t always feel like progress while you’re in it. Sometimes it just feels like you don’t fit where you used to.

#fyp #foryou #selflove #selfimprovement

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

The biggest red flags don’t always show up when someone likes you. They show up when you disagree with them, set a boundary, or tell them they’ve hurt you.
Don’t “diagnose” someone from one bad moment. Pay attention to the pattern, especially how you feel after conflict with them

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We celebrate the obvious milestones so loudly that we forget how much growth happens without anyone noticing.

Changing your mind. Walking away. Learning to rest. Apologising properly. Choosing peace over proving a point.

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Your 20s have a way of making everything feel urgent. Like if you don’t figure it out RIGHT now, you’ll fall behind forever.

You won’t. Some things need time, not a deadline. 🤍

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Feeling confident in your appearance is fun. But I never want the way I look to be the most interesting thing about me. Have weird interests. Learn things for no reason. Get really good at something. Form your own opinions. Tell good stories. Have hobbies you’re terrible at.

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You don’t need to know exactly where you’ll be in five years. You need to know yourself well enough to make the right decisions as life changes.

A plan is helpful. Self-trust is better. 🤍

#fyp #foryou #selfgrowth #selfimprovement #wellness

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Not every feeling needs to become a message. Sometimes you need to write it, feel it, understand it, and then decide if it still needs to be said. 🫶🏼

#fyp #foryou #selfgrowthjourney #wellness #personalgrowth

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

You’re not behind. You’re just living a life you haven’t lived before.

You don’t need all the answers right now. Some things are meant to be figured out by living through them, not overthinking them. 🤍

#fyp #foryou #selfimprovement #selfgrowth #wellness

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

You don’t need to reinvent yourself. You just need to spend enough time with yourself to remember what you actually like, want and care about. 🤍

#foryou #fyp #selfgrowth #wellness #selfimprovement

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Sometimes you’re not struggling because you can’t get what you want. You’re struggling because you’ve been chasing it for so long, you never stopped to ask if you still want it.

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

A lot of things feel huge when you’re living through them. Then one day, you realised how little they actually mattered.

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Sometimes growing up doesn’t mean that part of you grew up too. The complete inner child healing video is now out on my YouTube and the link is in my bio 🫶

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Feeling lost in your 20s doesn’t mean you’re behind. You’re building a life with information you’re still gathering. You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to keep moving, trying, changing your mind and paying attention to what feels like yours. 🤍

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

The best conversationalists aren’t just good at talking. They’re good at noticing.

The pauses, the change in tone, what gets avoided, what gets laughed off. There’s always more being communicated than just words.

Emotional intelligence is learning to pay attention to all of it

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

You don’t need a 10-year plan. You probably just need to ask yourself better questions about what you want next.

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

A year of sharing a home and learning that love is built just as much in the little everyday things as the big ones

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Sometimes what we call “just who I am” might actually be things we learned to do to feel safe. And noticing the difference can teach you a lot about yourself 🫶

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Manifesting is less about attracting your future and more about training yourself to recognise it

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Trust in yourself is built in the tiny moments you choose not to abandon yourself

[Diya Minty @MintyDiya_]

Manifestation isn’t just thinking about what you want. It’s becoming the version of you who already believes it’s possible 🫶🌞