Me, I don’t want any woman to suffer with me. I don’t want to owe anybody anything when I get to where I’m going. Make nobody come tell me, “I was there with you.” No dey with me for here abeg.
@MkoTheComedian Na only men dey love unconditionally, walai!
Women don’t love, they stay under the conditions of financial stability or the possibility of a future financial stability.
I’m recommending these four books for you to pick from and read this weekend:
1. Games People Play - Eric Berne
2. The Talented Mr. Ripley - Patricia Highsmith
3. A Time to Kill - John Grisham
4. Want to Stay Alive? - James Hadley Chase
I’ll be reading Games People Play by Eric Berne. I’ve already read a couple of pages this morning.
You can find all four books online as PDFs on OceanofPDF. Let me know if you need any further assistance.
You need to stop explaining yourself.
Men don't care and women are enjoying your distress because they get to use you as a cursory example.
If you stop engaging totally. She'll move on once she enters another talking stage.
But getting a reaction out of you is fun so she'll keep doing it.
If your wife is not leaving you, then you have nothing to worry about ultimately.
If she's leaving you, that should be where all your energy goes especially if you have kids.
The people who are drawing a moral boundary here all have things they let themselves do that other people will draw a moral boundary around.
Everyone is fucked up in their own way is why you cannot take anyone seriously.
If a babe can bring agbero to your house to beat you, it means you have not taken the time to make sure the rough boys around your own street benefit from you too.
The first person you should befriend in your area is the DPO of whatever police station is closest to you.
Also this might be destressing and you maybe telling your wife that you will never do it again. Just wait until all the dust settle. You'll most definitely do it again.
Also unless you're single, don't date multiple babes in the same city.
That's how OGs like me do it.
You're welcome.
Nature never punishes the evil. Nature punishes the weak because nature does not know morality, nature doesn't know what is right and what is wrong. And storms never choose victim based on morality. It punishes the weakness, not weakness of character, but weakness to adapt, to evolve, to endure it. Reality rewards resilience. Resilience that can we survive the condition which we have, can we survive the circumstances which are given to us, the person who is resilient enough, the person who is aware enough can actually move through their challenges. That is why nature rewards strength and nature will keep on punishing the weak unless and until that weak become strong. Because that is the only way of evolution. That is the only way of growing.
All through last week I didn't see any entry while price went my direction to the latter
This week, I've taken 6 trades with all TPs!
This is the unpredictability of trading
Your only job is to SHOW UP ALWAYS!!!!!
For a relationship to thrive, one person somehow has to be a little foolish, often without even realizing it. If both the man and the woman are constantly observant, overly self-conscious and hyperaware of every little thing, trust me, the relationship will likely struggle. Sometimes, not noticing everything is exactly what keeps a relationship together. Ignorance is what gives people the room to love, compromise and overlook things.
You can hardly find a relationship where two people love each other equally. More often than not, one person loves more, sacrifices more, carries more of the emotional weight of the relationship and is more willing to do whatever it takes to make things work, while the other simply makes an effort. That imbalance is not necessarily a bad thing. In many cases, it is what keeps the relationship moving.
This also explains why people often date and marry their opposites. Someone who is hot-tempered may naturally gravitate towards someone who is slow to anger. Someone who overthinks may find peace with someone who is more carefree. For a relationship to thrive, both people cannot insist on getting their way all the time. At some point, one person has to be the fool. Not because they are actually foolish, but because they are willing to overlook what the other person would have turned into a major issue.
One thing I believe everyone should experience at least once in their lifetime is financial stability.
Everyone should experience being able to afford the basic things of life, enjoy some luxuries, go year in, year out without being broke, and always have enough money. Since 2020, I haven’t known what it feels like to be broke. Money meets money in my hands, and I have lived a very peaceful life where I don’t have to worry myself too much. I can keep money as savings and, years later, still have no need to touch it.
You will never know how easy life can get until you experience stability in your finances. There is a certain confidence and peace of mind that comes with it. You can talk to any girl you want, travel when you want, and buy the things you want without doing mental calculations or saving for years to afford them. You make plans, and you execute them.
People around you respect you, not necessarily because they want to, but because they know you have money. Money solves almost all your problems, and it can even make you a better human being. Every single day, you are looking fresh and smelling so good, and you live quietly. It takes a lot of your worries away.
Then you trade it for years or several months till it feels like second nature
Then you can probably out grow it too ..psychologically
When you start to know when a trade will fail from just intuition
This is when you upgrade it … not to sth different
But to a version of it that improves the accuracy
But ppl want to figure out everything about the market when they haven’t even gotten enough consistency to execute their simple system accurately in mere 5 trades in a row !
Your first edge is a simple trading system.
If it's not simple, it can't be repeated
If it can't be repeated, you can't encourage consistency
If you can't be consistent with it, you can't also be profitable
So you see, your first edge is a simple trading system!
@sledge_baba@omoboodalaide You think it’s about her ??
It’s actually about what your wife has discussed with her about you….
This why the wife had to call the husband immediately instead of “lets hear what he would say”.
It’s only on X that you girls have all this energy. In real life, when a man asks about your body count, you’ll now start lying about it, saying it’s two or three. Why not just be honest about it? Since men and women are supposedly equals on this, why not own it?
Women, no matter how you try to frame it, can never compete with men in this regard. A woman is traditionally judged by chastity. A man sleeping around and a woman sleeping around have never been viewed the same way, and the consequences are different. No amount of freedom fighting or wokeness can change that. You can never beat men at this game.
Meanwhile, it’s only on X that cheating is a dealbreaker for women, especially when the man is poor. In the real world, it is rarely that simple.
If you choose not to preserve yourself for your husband, that is your choice. Sleep around if you want to. But when you meet a man who wants to marry you, be honest with him about your sexual history and let’s see how it goes.
Unless you don’t want to get married, which is perfectly okay, understand that chastity is still a quality men consider important when choosing a wife.