Sometimes, we hurt people and we blame them for getting angry at us, judge them and get angry with them for ending the relationship or marriage. In this instance, there is a double offence - the infidelity and having a child with another woman.
We judge women for paternity fraud. We cannot play ignorance on this matter. Her anger is valid, and honestly, she deserves to be angrier. If she walks out of the marriage, you should understand why she walked out. You would want your child to return home to you in such instance - except you have a different value system. It is a lot for the wife to deal with because the family will never be the same again. The other woman will always be a part of the man's life by virtue of being the mother to his child.
You can show remorse and ask for forgiveness, and let her decide for herself if she wants to forgive you and continue the marriage. But don't play the "we are in Africa and it is a man's world" card. There is a face to the pain you caused. She is your wife, a human being, not a ram. I don't buy into this "it is a woman's world abroad" and "it is a man's world in Africa" as an excuse to hurt people. We all know what we are doing and we ought to do better. If you say you want to do life with somebody, you owe them respect, consideration and dignity. The marriage vow says "to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God’s holy law. In the presence of God I make this vow."
God bearing witness to the marital vow should mean something above gender based agenda.
jesus christ!
he was way too cool, he slept thru a storm, how about saying he’ll die & wake up after 3 days and actually did.
he’s auracle literally 😭
In the last 72hours alone:
A whole brigadier general was slaughtered like a chicken, nothing happened to the service chiefs.
A girls school in Kebbi was attacked with a vice principal killed and 25girls kidnapped till now, nothing happened to the service chiefs.
A church in Kwara was attacked with the video live-streamed and a pastor was abducted, 3 church members murdered and many more church members kidnapped, nothing happened to the service chiefs.
A military convoy was ambushed and 4 soldiers were murdered, nothing happened to the service chiefs.
BUT THERE WAS NEWS OF A COUP,
And immediately all of the service chiefs were removed and replaced. Because to the chief parasite in Aso Rock, keeping his seat in power is far more important than keeping Nigerians (who voted him) safe and secure.
Just incase you don’t know it yet:
Your life is totally meaningless, worthless and valueless to the heartless locusts who are currently leading Nigeria today.
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