it’s just sad that some of us grew up in a household or family that is non-affectionate and never talks about feelings. that even when we were kids, we were not used to express our feelings and what is going on inside our minds. that instead of teaching us on how to express it +,
Reasons to not have kids:
- you’re being pressured
- you want a mini version of yourself
- you want the unconditional love you never got
- you want someone to fulfill your un-lived life
- you’re at a certain age
Reasons to have kids:
- you’ve healed and can provide compassion, empathy, and nurturing to another person
- you have built an emotionally healthy home and want to share it
- you want to provide the space for a human being to become who they truly are
- you understand children have emotional and developmental needs
- you understand secure attachment and how this shapes a child’s brain and nervous system
- you feel deeply called to it in your body
- you’re ready to consistently sacrifice and feel good about it
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