Heather

Sexuality Professional. Relational Therapist (RP). Haver of complex conversations. Holder of hope. Sorting labels: critical, feminist, femme. Pronoun fluid.

[Heather @MissHC]

Hi. Here with a little reminder that good sex is allowed to matter. And frankly, if your partner is so great, why aren't the attuning to you in this area?

[Heather @MissHC]

Friendly reminder, boundaries are focused on you. Your actions, your choices. Telling others what they can/cannot do is a control tactic.

For example: "my boundary is that you can't surf with men" -- control tactic.

[Heather @MissHC]

@MsKateSinclaire It was great having you!

[Heather @MissHC]

Conscious hip hop and leaving the gym at midnight. .... Is it 2013 again?

[Heather @MissHC]

@NatalieZed Oh Natalie. I am so sorry. I cannot even figure out the right thing to say about how special Lydia was. I've missed her regularly and know that it was a treat to love and fight with her when I did.

[Heather @MissHC]

@jeffperera We're gonna heal and we're gonna eat 😅

[Heather @MissHC]

@LegendaryDenise Thank you so much!

[Heather @MissHC]

Ever get stuck in not really knowing what to do with a hottie you want to play with? Or be uncertain about how to bring your desires to life? I'm talking about this and more for CUFF. Come!
https://t.co/DMIcX6AI8f

[Heather @MissHC]

'This Barbie is a bus driver ' I mean, not for a few years but.... 😂

[Heather @MissHC]

Wait, is this saying I need to marry a hot barbarian?

That actually tracks.

[Heather @MissHC]

I said I would cry at my enemies.....

[Heather Hogan @theheatherhogan]

Made ya another important quiz! https://t.co/Y3F1YNO4Cm

[Heather @MissHC]

Perimenopause, as usual, can eat my whole ass.

[Heather @MissHC]

Something that's always come pretty easy to me is not really being a jealous partner, but y'all it's 10:22 PM and my partner just made himself a post-sex ice coffee.

And he'll be asleep by 11pm

[Sunny Megatron | Sexologist & Kink Educator @SunnyMegatron]

“Our job is to incentivize the p rn industry to only sell legitimate product” → at the end of the day that’s what EVERYONE wants! And sex workers know the ins & outs of HOW to do that! Like repeatedly asking for age verification, etc. #MoneyShotNetflix #FlyDuoWatchParty

[Heather @MissHC]

.... Was Luther always this intense? Did I just use some much more stamina for fictional evil?

[Muting/Blocking = Self Care @QueeringPsych]

As long as you know how to regulate yourself and/or regulate nervous systems with others, then do you

It’s more than reasonable & healthy for your brain to check out sometimes esp if life systemically sucks

Do you know how to get back to the present when you need to/want to?

[Muting/Blocking = Self Care @QueeringPsych]

The point of somatic/mindfulness/trauma work is NOT to be present all the time

Ew no.

The point is so you have options. So your body isn’t in a constantly dissociating or constantly being flooded in stress hormones, which has negative health effects

[Heather @MissHC]

If you're Canadian and looking for some homegrown talent, check out @lunamatatas for consultations OR workshops (another fantastic date night idea!)
https://t.co/xMg0UzlW4f

[Heather @MissHC]

It's 5pm on #ValentinesDay Did you space on a gift? Here's a last-minute idea that doesn't suck.

Hire a sex educator for a guided sex toy shopping date.
From the pleasure of your living room, you & your sweeties can relax while working with a personalized shopper!

[Heather @MissHC]

@GoddessCecilia is another fantastic and very affordable US-based option
https://t.co/vB7OQuJELO