giving your partner alone time and space would solve so many issues. y’all are just so obsessed with this culture of being up under somebody 24/7. suffocation makes things expire at a faster rate. relax and just be by yourself. it’s okay to maintain your individuality.
No contact is saying “I will no longer abandon my reality for the sake of an imagined version of you.” Bc to keep the door open, energetically or literally is to keep your soul hostage to a future that doesn’t exist.
i just think you’re supposed to walk this earth thinking you’re the baddest bitch alive and when the person to your left says “i’m the baddest bitch alive” you’re also supposed to say PERIOD YUP RIGHT! because DUH
I miss doing my taxes in high school when I would be like yep I work at a store in the mall:) and then TurboTax would be like incredible here’s a $600 refund to spend on weed and corduroy pants from Goodwill
I’ve been traumatized and lived thru some fucked up shit and I still treat people with love and decency. Trauma is not an excuse to treat people like shit. :)))
it takes more than a good time to be a friend. forever cordial because it's no beef, but a lot of men & women i've encountered have nothing in common with the kinda man i'm striving to be... i had to separate the cool ones from the real ones.
learning to separate your group of friends by who is TRULY a friend, the turn-up friend, the business minded friend, and even knowing that some people are ONLY associates is truly a life skill. a lot of y'all think we locked in, but i peeped your character, and you as a
I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t dissociating from a lot to maintain my sanity these days. I would like to reignite my passionate self that cares about more than my self-preservation. how do I find this balance again?
My dad is my favorite, I SWEAR. I ordered a few books yesterday and I was telling him about one I thought he’d enjoy and should read after me and he immediately said “I just finished it, cancel that book you can have it!” 🤣
You’re gonna end up being whatever character someone needs in their story anyways. Whatever villain or hero that fits the narrative of their worldview. So you really can’t concern yourself with what they think of you. Better to put that energy towards fully living your life.