Miss Red

🌈👩‍🦽Spoonie x stitch designer, 🪡 seamstress, craftaholic! Bespoke Corsets, Sewing Supplies, Printables, Digital Journals📚

[Miss Red @MissRedCreates]

@Smyth_Chris Plus, all of the things you've mentioned here are things we can already access FOR FREE, which you really should know if you had done any research about your proposal, or cared to find out anything about normal people surviving on MUCH less than 6-figures a year!

[Miss Red @MissRedCreates]

@Smyth_Chris Even those of us on the highest amounts of disability benefits are living on less than minimum wage, none of which we can afford to *swap*; I can barely cover my bills as it is... & I eat one child sized meal a day, if I remember to, so I have almost £0 food bill unlike most.

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@Hossylass @Smyth_Chris Right now, as many as they need, & without giving up a penny of their benefits, just ask their GP for a referral. All of these things are currently free!

[Miss Red @MissRedCreates]

@Windsofchange72 @wine_x13 They clearly didn't meet my sister! 🤔 Maybe they meant brother in my case 😉

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@joel_brandow @Nitro8081 @itsnwts One time he admitted to & she knew of. Doesn't mean there weren't more. The trust is broken. If she had forgiven him then every time he came home late, went out or away anywhere without her there would always be that thought in her mind that he could be cheating. No way to live!

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@curlymirmy I'm confused, are you the boss who denied employees a raise? Surely not, makes no sense you'd be pleased them about paying out more. So are you the employee & you initially *refused* the lower amount & turning it down got you the higher wage... If so, good on them/congrats you!

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@snowyxq1 20 (I'm 47)

[Miss Red @MissRedCreates]

@JamesSantory @ZainabSana2622 Are you being extremely literal & you're deaf so you actually haven't *heard* of any?

There are thousands of married men out there that have nothing whatsoever to do with their children. It's utterly bewildering to me that there are grown adults out there so oblivious!

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@Missmorize @Caydensmit16436 @The_Invad3r Oh yeah, can totally understand giving it as one example, especially when folks just aren't getting it & have no frame of reference. I guess for some it's totally inconceivable that anyone with sexual desire would *choose* to abstain without a reason as huge as god! 🤣

[Miss Red @MissRedCreates]

@Missmorize @Caydensmit16436 @The_Invad3r Yup, definitely not asexual, never said I was (demisexual, not that anyone cares). Simply saying a lot of people choose to be celibate for non moral/religious reasons. I think any definition suggesting that's *usually* the case is a little out-dated.

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@Missmorize @Caydensmit16436 @The_Invad3r Whilst I agree celibacy isn't out of a lack of sexual desire I'm also one of several in my friend group who is or has been celibate for non moral/religious reasons. Unless having too many exes who are complete trash counts as moral? 😝

[Miss Red @MissRedCreates]

@Kinza1278 Chippy chips!

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@JoshuaW09549260 @WheelerDax I use a wheelchair & still have people who think I'm faking because I look young! 😡

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@Moe689364344269 @Shrink_at_Large @oo_Socrates82 A (new to me) GP referred me to social prescribers in Jan & I've heard nothing back. I'm chronically ill/disabled, almost entirely bed-bound & house-bound. 🤔 Yeah, not holding my breath...

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@OnahPete I have a university education & great credit but could only finally afford to buy a % of a house when I was 32 because of an insanely good deal due to the fact my last rental was being demolished. As a teacher in my early 20s I lived in a total dump so he's doing better than me!

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@OnahPete If this was real I'd have just muted the doorbell cam & left her ranting to herself... I doubt she'd have even noticed given nobody but her is allowed to talk based on her "art of conversation" rules! 🤣

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@Smuckerdoodle6 @PolyLinaCat @TinyWriterLaura I'm not even really a style girl really tbf (goth aesthetic) so one less requirement. But totally agree, lovely clothing that fits & suits our bodies without flashing or being dowdy feels like it's actually a really basic ask, and yet...

Lucky we're a talented bunch really! 😉

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@NoNonsenseND I was referred to as weird, shy, awkward, difficult (in the classes I didn't excel in) & gifted. I was bullied terribly for these things & referred to as a teachers pet (I was quite the opposite, painfully stubborn when it came to how I went about learning).

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@LordDracon2908 @NoNonsenseND Yup, my P. E teachers suggested I be tested when I was 11/12 but my mum refused because I was in top sets for everything else so couldn't possibly be autistic.

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@Smuckerdoodle6 @PolyLinaCat @TinyWriterLaura I was a teacher too - primary so lots of bending over & crouching & crawling on the floor. I eventually made myself a bunch of cute little lacey cleavage catchers that velcro into the inside of tops with a bit of a scoop or V neck just so I could move freely without worrying. 😍