I’m a Domme, not a robot. Some days I’ll happily chat, laugh and be sweet with you. Other days I won’t feel like talking at all. Enjoy my attention when I give it, just don’t confuse kindness with entitlement.🖤
Tip for new Dommes:
Stop waiting for people to read your mind.
If you want coffee, say you want coffee.
If there’s something sitting on your wishlist that you’ve been thinking about all week, POST IT.
If you want your sub to step up, tell him.
You don’t have to sit there dropping mysterious hints and hoping somebody eventually figures them out.
Confidence is attractive.
Communication is important.
And asking for something does not guarantee you’ll receive it, but staying completely silent guarantees nobody even knows you wanted it.
Get comfortable hearing “not right now.”
Get comfortable hearing “I can’t afford that.”
Even get comfortable hearing “no.”
Then carry on with your day.
A confident Domme knows what she wants and isn’t embarrassed to communicate it. 👑
Tip for my dommes
Honestly, stop being fucking scared.
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but stop being afraid to tell people what you want. Ask for it. Demand it. Speak up. Because close mouths don’t get fucking fed.
The worst they can say is, “Sorry, Princess, I can’t buy that right now. I’ll get it when I get paid.”
Or simply, “No.”
And? So what?
Don’t be afraid of rejection. Ask anyway. You’ll never get what you want if you’re too scared to fucking ask for it.
If you’re a sub complaining about tribute, you’re probably in the wrong space. Access isn’t owed, attention isn’t free, and nobody’s forcing you to participate.