I like how the posture of someone's heart is always revealed through their actions. Like, you could tell me a thousand things, but the actions supersede your words.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
My favorite saying is, โPeople are just peopleโ , because real theyโre just people trying to figure it out and do what what they believe is best for them.
Do not talk about discernment if you cannot recognise when someone needs compassion more than criticism and correction. There is a time to guide and a time to simply hold space for a person who is hurting. Wisdom knows the difference. And kindness knows it even faster.