don't invalidate people's struggles because you've been through worse. if someone is tired after working for 5 hours and you worked for 7, it doesn't mean that they're not allowed to be tired. it doesn't mean they can't feel what they're feeling just because you've had it worse
Please fall in love with someone who genuinely wants you, patiently waits for your messages, understands you even in your madness, talks to you after a fight. The right person sees the mess and moods but still chooses you.
If you’re a woman and it suddenly feels like everything is crashing on you, or the world is coming to an end, give it 3-7 days before you make any rash decisions. You’ll see why within that window, I promise 🤣