Empress Scarlet

Goddess | Mistress | Queen | Playful & seductive domme based in Montreal💋 No tribute, no reply.

[Empress Scarlet @Miss_Scarletxo]

Chapter 4: Inside the mind of a submissive man
- The psychology of BDSM
- 9 explanations as to why men crave submission to dominant women

Which explanation do you resonate with most? 😈 What else would you add to the list?

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[Empress Scarlet @Miss_Scarletxo]

Read my Substack, "Diary of a Domintr*x" to get a peak inside my mind:

Chapter 1: Why do I fantasize about being a dominatr*x?
-- Let's talk about kink, mental health, genetics, psychology and power.

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[Mistress Marley 💅🏾 ONE OF ONE 💅🏾| NYC ⚔️ @eyesxonfire]

Nothing is better than having loyal subs as your errand boys. I can just relax while my tasks get done

[Jaz 🎀 @send2jaz]

The IRS just issued a notice that all men have to turn over their tax returns to beautiful women.

[Lady_EllaBe @ella_behk]

I was inspired by a post I read on X today, which got me writing. While I agree that tribute is an honour for our time and craft, what happens when a sub tries to use their tribute not as an offering, but as a tool to purchase your boundaries?

If you take the money and give in, you have to ask the most uncomfortable question: who is dominating who?

read : https://t.co/wUb2S2xcxY

[Max Reign @mistrixmax]

Feminization but forcing him to learn empathy

[Susa 𓇢𓆸 @prinkasusa]

the dating pool for young women is literally:

- porn addicts
- "sensitive"guys you have to perform constant emotional labour for
- narcissistic (if not sociopathic) gym bros
- emotionally distant manipulators
- performative "woke" men who still treat women like sh*t

[Empress Scarlet @Miss_Scarletxo]

@ServeInari YES.🙌 I don’t want to pretend to be someone I’m not just to fit a domme stereotype. The options are unlimited and dynamics can be unique for each person

[• Inari • @ServeInari]

Every single domme has a different way of dealing with subs and their dynamic.

Some dommes are brutal and they literally don't care about the person on the other side of the screen. And that's ok. There are those who seek that.

Some dommes get really emotionally invested in their subs and that's also ok, there's plenty of men out there longing for a deeper connection.

There are dommes who are possessive and limit their subs alternatives and actions, and there are dommes who don't care at all.

There are dommes who use and toss them to the corner and those who use and use and use and in the process build a dynamic.

There are dommes who do sessions and dommes who don't, just as there are girls who only do online and some who do irl too.

There's a flavor for every taste and we don't need to compete. The right sub for your style is out there just waiting to meet you. Be you and be consistent, they will find you!

[Scy .��� ݁˖ @scycult]

I don’t let any sub top from the bottom. No, you can’t compromise with me. No, I am not sending you content simply because you sent once. No, I am not doing anything that makes me uncomfortable because you feel entitled to my time or body. No, you don’t make any rules. You are a submissive, act like one, or get blocked.

[Empress Scarlet @Miss_Scarletxo]

Take notes.

[Mistress Marley 💅🏾 ONE OF ONE 💅🏾| NYC ⚔️ @eyesxonfire]

This is how you approach.

[Lynn🦋 @lynn_goddesss]

If any of my subs believe the Rapture is happening tomorrow…now would be a great time to send me all your money! You won’t need it in heaven and I obviously won’t be going 🥰

[Alla @sunrisefall]

We care about actual submissive men who serve us, who are consistent and devoted, who are loyal and are seeking a real connection.
And we don’t care about subs who serve their own desires, who are ran through, who are willing to humiliate their own wives and mothers and who see us as fetish dispensers.

[Alla @sunrisefall]

My ideas of female dominance go far beyond kink. In fact, I believe that kink scene limits woman’s expressions of power and puts her into a certain position which is still based on male gaze and men’s fetishes. Real female dominance isn’t performative and often doesn’t look like what most subs imagine.
In life, it doesn’t matter if a man thinks he’s a sub/dom/switch/vanilla (they often don’t even know what they are but think they do - it just takes one woman to change the pattern) - female dominance isn’t kink based. No matter what a guy identifies as, he serves the needs of the woman and makes sure she’s taken care of, well rested, fed, in a nice house and has many orgasms.
All the rest is just play pretend.

[Alla @sunrisefall]

I stopped paying much attention to what a man calls himself — a dom, a sub, a switch or vanilla. Either way, he still ends up orbiting around a woman’s desires. He’s still a servant. Those are just different flavors of the same purpose: HER pleasure. The roleplay might change, but the axis stays the same. You perform, she selects. She is the center of gravity, and you’re just spinning.

And that’s exactly what makes you happy and fulfilled.

[𝗔𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗮 @amarahyatt]

“they are less intimidated when they see my human parts, when i'm not just a fantasy to them” one of my favourite subs actually tells me this exact thing, that the whimsy i carry and the wit, showing emotion, is exactly why he felt safe to let his guard down around me. once you show your real emotions, you become a reality. i love this entire post sm 💯

[Empress Scarlet @Miss_Scarletxo]

@eyesxonfire I’ve had around 7 FetLife accounts locked or deleted and it’s driving me insane. Sometimes it’s for sharing links that are promotional, sometimes for things being discussed in my DMs, sometimes it’s certain phrasing in my bio. It’s so frustrating, like CHILL.

[HUNTER DA GOD @thehunterofprey]

sometimes i prefer subs who dont have a humiliation/degradation k!nk like bro cant i just be sweet and flirty and pretty and whimsy and funny in the DMs wtf

[Empress Scarlet @Miss_Scarletxo]

I love witnessing men express their vulnerability and their desire to worship the divine feminine.