Always buying dresses that donβt need a underwear but Iβll be wearing and youβll think I am not
I worked in retail I know exactly what underwear goes with what
I used to be a girl who didnβt like jewellery. Itβs until my friends started gifting me jewellery I understood what it meant.
I am currently tired of wearing my ring, I placed it safely cause it is important to me
The kids will have international trips alone nathi we go to our own. Letβs not forget a pet.
I want to grow up in the house I was raised in so badly but the marriage part isnβt important
Please donβt judge me neh
Guys I understand marriage being the end goal itβs not mine
Mine is having a supportive partner who will be a present partner and father (yes to my child & his)
A home that is healthy for all of us
3 cars
Vacations centralised around partying and 1 family vacation ko CPT
Gave my mom a edible very low dose.
Umzali wenza ama drugs wait till my dad finds out and says I am the problem cause I even taught her savanna which she can only drink 1πππ
So there's this girl, she sells cake for a living but wakes up gets dressed like she is going to her corporate job only to just take mirror pictures in the elevator for IG and then goes back to her apartment
Aurum has a very cool date night for the month of June (Mon-Thurs). Give it a chance if u can
You get a complimentary glass of Moet upon arrival ππΎ
Jonas omborela his carelessness otherwise amadoda anje
Not that Iβve had to endure such I am too evil for that
Mathipa purposely choosing to be a single mom just to secure the bag is giving hood mentality dressed up in a degree and a nice place
Indoda kumele ibe mnyama, ibe nentshebe, ibe ne nose ring , 1 ear ring , futhi ibe nekhanda elingenazinwele.
You have time gents we deserve to drink tequila from your mouth ka September
4. With us we use what we were taught as a keep strategy. We become performative cause we were programmed that as long as you reward people they will be good to you.
Another realisation is that yβall like performative love cause your parents never afforded you the opportunity
I grew up with performative love and I hate it
3. This always came with βI did this for you and thatβ while your parents never kept score and told you being good was for your own good this is why right now you feel you need payment to be a partner cause you longed that from your parents
2. You know how your parent would just be happy that you did good and all youβd get is praises ? Well people like me were rewarded for
Being good. Our parents had to motivate being good but hereβs the catch
1. Your know the grand gestures you like ? Your parents never did that for you so now you are seeking for it in your partners .
Then thereβs people like me who grew up on it this is a ick because performative love keeps score