Funny how a woman’s body can grow an entire human, push that human out, lose blo0d, shift organs around, heal from tearing and keep a baby alive with milk. But somehow people will still judge you for having stretch marks or a body that doesn’t look 19 anymore.
If you’re proud your kids only speak English and can’t speak Chichewa, at least make sure they know “please,” “excuse me,” “sorry,” “thank you,” “may I,” & “pardon me.”
Fluency means nothing without manners. Stop raising rude bastards in the name of being elite colonial puppets.
If childbirth is easy for you don't mock others.
If delivery was easy for you don't call those who went through CS lazy.
If you can get pregnant easily don't ask others why they haven't got pregnant.
Don't ask people why they haven't given birth if you aren't extremely close to them.
Couples are going through a lot Trying to conceive and childbirth.
Be wise don't be STUPID
Be Grateful to God
Kids should be born out of love & intention, not to prove to some loudmouth in Chasefu or Mchengautuba that you are fertile. Such thinking can only come from a head full of mucus. Sex serves other proximate functions. It’s not a fertility exam. Livestock can think better.
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My aunt gave birth to one child, and immediately the baby outgrew everything he used as a child she gave everything out, she was so traumatized from that pregnancy that she swore never to have another child after that.
Becoming a mother has been one of the best things to happen to me, and my sons are my life, but I don’t understand why people who choose to be child-free receive such harsh criticism.
Past few weeks, I’ve been crashing out about motherhood on my WhatsApp status and I’ll definitely feel bad if anyone invalidate my feelings. Our journey are not the same, our experience can’t be, our struggle differs.