medley___

Proudly Roman Catholic 💒
tech student 👩‍💻
Just trying to live a life of purpose....

[Aproko Doctor Global @aproko_doctor]

One hospital bill can wipe out 5 years of your savings.

Don't just hustle without taking care of your health
Don't sacrifice your sleep
Don't sacrifice your diet.

When you're looking for things to protect, choose your health first.

[Ebun with Capital Letter E @adifferentshe]

Okay

[Oluwatimileyin✨🦋 @Timmysofine]

I will get married as a virgin. I’m proud of being sexually disciplined in today’s world. If people can come online and brag about multiple sexual partners, I can brag about chastity.

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

Good morning o and sorry to interrupt your scrolling.

I just want to remind you that this is happening in your country.

We don't know what has happened to them as it's been 72 hours.

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

“I pray this revolution I pray and crave for happen in my life time.

I’m going to give up at this time because the people in my generation are too afraid to speak up…”

- A former bank contract staff exposes the corruption and rot in the banking system

[Pastor Tomiwa Immanuel @TomiwaImmanuel]

If you have male children, you have a SACRED task of ensuring your son not only stands solid in character, but that he is also wise and courageous to stand up to his fellow men when they say and do evil to women.

[David Hundeyin @DavidHundeyin]

Nothing.

To.

Add.

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[Chisom Agbafor @ChisomAgbafor]

I’m genuinely confused.

So after the inflation.
After the kidnappings.
After months of no light.
After tax and fuel hikes.
After terrible healthcare.
After salaries can’t even keep up with feeding.

Election Day comes then:

You dress up, You leave your house, You queue under the hot sun, You vote for the same person again.

You are not normal.
Tell me if I’m wrong.

[Chimamanda❤️ @Chima_Obi1234]

“Ify called me yesterday morning, at about 8:30am.
She said, “Emy, don’t panic, but I have just been bitten by a snake. I’m on my way to the hospital.”

I asked her how it happened because I was in shock.
She said she was sleeping and felt pain. When she opened her eyes, she saw the snake.

I realised that wasn’t the time to ask too many questions, so I cut the call and called her back immediately with my smaller phone, using the bigger one to call people I knew in Abuja because she was going to the hospital alone.

Hand tied, just by herself.
Divine Health Hospital,
Trade Mall Road (Lugbe, Abuja).
That was the first hospital she went to.
When she got there, they immediately said they didn’t have the anti-venom and could not help her, so she booked another ride immediately to get to a hospital that might have it.

Note that while all this was happening, I was still on a call with her.
Never hung up.
She was speaking fine with me. Her hand was tied, and she was in a ride headed to Federal Medical Centre, Abuja.

We got to the next hospital some minutes to 10am, at which point she was still speaking with me.

When she got to the second hospital, she went into the emergency department and they started bombarding her with questions.
I was still on the call with her and it was irritating me. I kept saying, what are they doing?

I asked if they had the anti-venom, and she said they told her they would give her a drip.

The doctor removed the stuff she used to tie her hand to prevent the circulation of the venom and kept telling her to calm down.
She immediately told me, “Emy, they have removed the thing I used to tie my hand.”

I felt okay since she was at the hospital and thought the doctors should know better than me. I encouraged her to calm down.
When the drip was in, she started feeling dizzy and her tongue wasn’t speaking well again. That was when I let her relax and ended the call.

At that point, my uncle I had contacted in Abuja was already at the hospital with her, so I felt a bit of relief, thinking she was getting all the treatment she needed.
Now, when they lost her, I started seeing people saying she was bitten at night or the day before but only came yesterday which was a lie.

Doctors saying she wasn’t talking properly and came in late.
She came in by herself with both legs, without any help. I was speaking with her through it all. She was very audible.
Why did they remove the stuff she tied to prevent the spread of the venom?

Why tell her to calm down and proceed to put a drip?
Did they even have the anti-venom at this second hospital?
The hospital failed her and doubled down to lie about everything.
I hate the country so much.

We had such a great time together in Abuja this past Christmas.
How was I to know it would be the last time with you?
She was still speaking fluently with me and even sent me this video.
Water full my eyes…”

Brother of the girl that died yesterday from a snake b!te tells the Truth Behind her Tragic Passing

Moral Lesson: May Nigeria not happen to you.

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

This is actually not just a skit.

[Kia 🧸ྀི @xevekiah]

if you choose A WORKING WOMAN, you must accept that she CANNOT manage a house full time by herself. if you choose A HOUSEWIFE who can take care of and manage the household completely, you need to accept that she DOES NOT MAKE MONEY and you will have to provide for everything. if you choose a SUBMISSIVE WOMAN, you should accept that she DEPENDS on you to lead. if you choose to be with a STRONG WOMAN, you should accept that she is STUBBORN and has her own thoughts and ways.

[Chisom Agbafor @ChisomAgbafor]

There’s a special kind of rage that comes from knowing your life would be easier in a functioning country.

Not richer, not luxurious.

Just easier.

And realizing that ease was stolen from you before you even had a choice.

[medley___ @Misschris____]

@yankeewebdev 🎉🎉🎉👌

[Mushtaq Bilal, PhD @MushtaqBilalPhD]

A woman reads dense literary theory, writes a thesis on a complex topic, earns a PhD from a top university.

Dude-bros: Useless. Waste of time and money. Burn it all down.

A woman enjoys reading romance novels.

Dude-bros: Useless. Waste of time and money. Burn it all down.

[FS YUSUF @FSYusuff]

If an Igbo person were to openly support Biafra with the same boldness that serpentine Sheikh Gumi uses to defend Islamic terrorists, that person would likely be in prison by now.

[Shomi 🦋 WNC @Shomicita]

- Feeling good in your skin while rejecting beauty standards.
- Walking away from bad experiences from others.
- Enjoying a home-cooked meal.
- Complimenting another woman and watching her whole demeanour elevate.
- Hosting a get-together.
- Trying a new activity and liking it.

[Ugo of #Geni🦅 @its_yugee]

2026 is for AUDACITY!!!

No more cowering where you should be standing tall; no more settling for crumbs when in fact you can be offered the entire bakery.

No more hiding. It is a BOLD YEAR!
Get in with the program and be AUDACIOUS!

You have what it takes, I promise.

[Aproko Doctor Global @aproko_doctor]

The safest way to travel is by plane. Do you know why?

Because they crash.

A few months ago, I learned a concept called Black Box Thinking which is a system that defines how entire industries respond to failure.

In aviation, when a plane crashes, they don't just look for who to blame.

They find a device called a Black Box, retrieve the data, and then ask what went wrong with the system.

And there is a reason for this.

To explain this, there is a famous story of a crash involving an Asian airline years ago.

When investigators listened to the recording from the black box, they found the engine didn't just fail on its own, the junior pilot actually noticed a mistake.

But because of a cultural hierarchy in Asia that demanded absolute respect for elders, he didn't question his senior pilot.

Instead, he hinted and spoke softly and the plane crashed.

That tragedy changed aviation safety forever.
It moved the focus from "Who made the mistake?" to "Why did the system allow this mistake?"

As we stand on the 29th of December, looking back at 2025, I want you to adopt this strategy of Black Box Thinking.

Most of us look at our failures this year and feel shame.

We hide the crash, and blame the economy, government, or something that does not exist.

But Black Box thinking demands a harder question: "How did I contribute to this problem?"

Did I stay silent when I should have spoken up?

Did I rely on motivation instead of a system?

Did I ignore the data because of my ego?

Don't bury your failures of 2025.

Open the box and analyze it.

Because that is the only way to fly safer in 2026.

[small waist 🧚🏾‍♀️ @oddettem]

Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.

[Joseph Brendan @Joe_brendan_]

My dad was advising a man that was complaining about his wife not giving birth to a boy because the man said how will his name "survive"

And my dad said something that made me go crazy with my goals

he said,
If you want your name to live and not die, make a name for yourself. your kids cannot keep your name alive.

If you want your name to survive, give your name life by doing things that people will talk about when you die.

he asked the guy "who remembers the kids of Abraham Lincoln or the kids of Thomas Edison or even Nnamdi Azikiwe?"

"Who even cares about the kids of anyone great in history?" we don't.

So if you want your name to not die, make a name for yourself by being a great person or else, your name will die when you die and there is nothing you can do about it.

Every lineage comes to an end.
But the great names in every dead lineage do not die. They outlive generations.