“Hmm a shipment of hops, but with a woman’s name on it. Should we deliver it to the brewery at that address? Nah, must be for the cosmetology store next door.” 🤷♀️ (my FedEx driver, apparently)
Lessons learned: (1) if what you’re hearing makes u defensive, stop & think about why (2) there are systemic problems that u participate in (and have to own) because u are part of the system (3) put the safety on that hair-trigger temper (4) when u fuck up apologise & do better.
@mistrchristophr And the irony is that I was commenting about the fact that the R staffers we met with were all white men, but the D staffers were women, black, and hispanic. Not even thinking about out end. Ooops.
@DrankyDranks @mistrchristophr I get that. I was having a “not all white people…” moment of defensiveness. Doesn’t negate the fact that it’s still a bad look.
@coastlines Look, I’m sorry. I don’t know you at all, and I should not have assumed that you were just a “keyboard” warrior. I hate the idea that I tore down another woman working to improve this industry. But in my defense, you did say I looked GOP. In my house those are fighting words.
@coastlines You’re right. It was wrong of me to make that assumption about you. you’re right to hold industry leadership accountable. I was defensive knowing how hard some of those folks are working for change, seeing it dismissed for surface appearances. But that’s no excuse. I’m sorry
@BeerDad774@coastlines You’re right and it’s just as wrong for me to make assumptions on my end. I agree that there are diversity issues in this industry. @coastlines I apologise for being defensive. There are important advocates for women, queer folk and indigenous peoples in that group.
@coastlines @mistrchristophr I get that it’s easy to make shallow assumptions when you don’t actually have a clue who any of those people are - and I’m not sure me explaining it to you would be worth my time. There are major problems in this industry. That advocacy group isn’t one of them.
@CraftBeerBetty @coastlines @mistrchristophr It’s “Wrath” from Artic Fox - thanks for noticing (I don’t wear that color *not* to stand out in a crowd). And thanks for stereotyping.
In our Nation’s capital for the @BrewersAssoc advocacy day - and it’s bringing out the political nerd in me. Got to meet with @AndyKimNJ between votes! Now fangirling over walking past @ericswalwell and @RepKatiePorter in the hallways.