Sandi Noma

Don't DM.

[☔ @Whotfismick]

I wouldn’t have to go through this if I had killed myself at 12

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

I blame you.

[Nicki 🫧🪷 @nickimoraa]

I came home from the hospital after having a minor surgery. The doctor said no lifting, no bending, and plenty of rest for a few days.

That evening I asked my husband if he could carry the laundry basket upstairs.

He sighed dramatically and said, “You act like you’re made of glass.”

I carried it myself.

Halfway up the stairs my incision started bleeding through the bandage.

When he saw it, he said, “Well, if it was that serious, you should’ve told me.”

I stared at him wondering how much clearer “the doctor said I can’t lift anything” could possibly have been.

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

I would have atleast 4 different qualifications.

[𓆩 ✝ 𓆪 @NglMaya]

if you followed your childhood dream job, what would you be right now?

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

Bold of you to assume women don't go to work and have money as well.

[Stella @ubiquitousnewt]

I don't get these tweets. Why the resentment and anger?

Right, this is my experience of family life.

My Mum did everything. She had that attention to detail. She planned it all. Step by step with excruciating precision. She knew what would be on my Christmas list before I even imagined it.

And we got everything we ever wanted and needed. At her command.

But. And its a big but I cannot lie, you other brothers and sisters raised in intact families can't deny....whose money was she spending? Where did the funds that she used to create magic come from?

My Father, of course.

So its teamwork you see. Father provides the money and Mother creates the magic.

For us brats.

Me and thee.

That's how it goes. In the most optimal conditions!

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

It's good behavior because there are no minors there.🫤

[Hoops Crave @HoopsCrave]

R.Kelly has been released from prison early due to good behavior.

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

If you need me to provide you so that you can save money to lobola me, doesn't that mean I am loboling myself?

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

Maybe you meant Xhosa women.😏

[Big Sis 🇿🇦 @Bokang_BigSis]

Mean girl energy especially if you are not Zulu

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

@muheediva01 I work in a hospital.

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

I can attest to this.

[raptor 🦍 @raptorr_xx]

Eh dawg. Staying with a man 24/7 doesn’t look fun 🫩🫩. Only benefits is dick waya waya , other than that? I don’t see the need .

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

Husband would rather have sex with my uncouncious non-responsive body then not have sex.

[ŠNØŴ @freakin_snow]

Why is it so too difficult for men to be in a relationship without sex ?

[ŠNØŴ @freakin_snow]

Why is it so too difficult for men to be in a relationship without sex ?

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

If two people are very drunk and something happens, the legal and social consequences often fall more heavily on the male, even in mutual situations.

If ability to judge is compromised. Mutual intoxication can create legal nightmares even when both thought it was mutual.

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

First time residing in Joburg and already I want to go home, yhuu the classism, the bullying, wanting to show off what you have, its survival of the boaster there. Some lady wanted to put me below her level and tried to wipe her camera with my shirt, sies!

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

Women excuse bad decisions and treating people horribly behind alcohol, they know very well what they are doing but the will lie and say it was the alcohol.

[kgadi♠️ @Kgadi_yaMoloto]

Woman to waman

Hit me with one harsh truth you've accepted so far as a woman.🥹

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

Lapho they are commenting dusty cars, they will see you in that dusty car they are recommending holding the iPhone 17 and still complain.😂

[uBHEBHE🇿🇦 @nokwandamhlong0]

Akaze yabakhona imoto ya R30k

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

The only reason the one on the left is for the male gaze is the boobs, that's it.

[Dave Greene @GreeneMan6]

I am fascinated by the difference between the women that men find attractive vs. the women that other women and gay men read as attractive.

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

Did men forget that we have jobs and and our own money?

[Shola 👑 @itsSh0la]

Saw a post where a girl said if men keep their money and women keep their body, who will beg first?

Truth is, the most important thing in this world is money, your landlord won’t chase you out of the house just because you’re horny, the hospital won’t choose not to treat your mom just because you’re horny, but you see lack of money? Your body won’t be able to save you when you start suffering.

People always disrespect money, mostly women and it makes me laugh.

“All they bring to the table is just money” “apart from money, what else do you bring to the table?”

That same money you’re trying to talk low about, same money you don’t have, you know what it takes to have it? The amount of work required to make and keep it?

The women can keep their body, while we men keep our money. They can text us once they go hungry tho.

[Dr. Hood Possum @DrLungi_Mashele]

Don’t report us - we’ll murder you.

Don’t hold us accountable - we’ll murder you.

Don’t threaten our jobs - we’ll murder you.

Don’t tell us we can speak to you - we’ll murder you.

Don’t tell us we can’t get your number illegally - we’ll murder you.

Just let us be men.

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

The father was not around to display the respect.

[L E S E D I @_Hybreed_]

How do men grow up with single moms and not have respect for women?

[Sandi Noma @Missy_links]

A guy once asked me asked me out persistently and I always told him I'm not interested. He would try figure out the reasons why and told me nothing can make me say no unless I have a man. So...

[Rebaone Moilwa @rebzs1]

I saw a TikTok video where someone said a girlfriend shouldn’t use her boyfriend as an excuse to turn other men down. She should simply say no, without adding “I have a boyfriend.”