I see so many wrong approaches every day.
If you’re a sub and you feel connected to a Domme, because you like her, admire her, or maybe you’ve even developed a crush on her, there’s one question you should ask yourself before messaging her:
“How will my presence improve her day?”
Not “How do I get her attention?” Not “What can she do for me?”
Her time and energy have value. If you say you admire her, start there. And if you can’t even ask yourself that simple question, then you’re more useless than you think. 🤏
Consistency and the energy you bring to the table matters.
Yes a good sub knows their place. But a good dom is willing to have open communication to improve the experience for both parties.
#findom#femdom
For those just finding me 👑
Experienced years as a Goddess has taught me that true dominance is about presence, standards, and consistency not empty words.🌸
I’m classy, demanding, and always willing to share what I’ve learned. 💕
I don’t chase words I notice consistency.🌷
Tip for new Dommes:
Stop waiting for people to read your mind.
If you want coffee, say you want coffee.
If there’s something sitting on your wishlist that you’ve been thinking about all week, POST IT.
If you want your sub to step up, tell him.
You don’t have to sit there dropping mysterious hints and hoping somebody eventually figures them out.
Confidence is attractive.
Communication is important.
And asking for something does not guarantee you’ll receive it, but staying completely silent guarantees nobody even knows you wanted it.
Get comfortable hearing “not right now.”
Get comfortable hearing “I can’t afford that.”
Even get comfortable hearing “no.”
Then carry on with your day.
A confident Domme knows what she wants and isn’t embarrassed to communicate it. 👑