1. Baby I’m not saying you can’t just wake up and decide to be a Dominatrix. Everybody is, it’s all the rage. What I am saying is don’t come crying to me when you realize it’s an extremely multi faceted job that requires a very specific set of skills.
It’s so obvious to me when someone in this industry has been seriously harmed by another peer, ex, etc from the industry.
I see you.
I hope you’re getting the care and support you deserve.
A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose love you seeked. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didn't deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go.
That will NEVER be you again.