“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts” Marcus Aurelius is trying to convey that a person’s happiness is determined primarily by how they think, not by external circumstances.
The nature, discipline, and moral quality of one’s thoughts shape how events are perceived and experienced. If thoughts are rational, virtuous, and well-ordered, life feels content and stable; if thoughts are negative, irrational, or uncontrolled, life feels unhappy regardless of outward conditions. According to him, happiness is an internal state governed by the mind, and improving one’s thoughts improves one’s life
I hope you find someone who is as fun, loving, passionate, sensual, soulful, and spiritual as you. Someone who is intimate, open, and vulnerable with you in every single sense. Someone who is so perfectly compatible with you, it's like you both manifested each other.
30 years ago today, Selena released Amor Prohibido, and hitting #1 on the Billboard Regional Mexican Albums chart for 8 months and becoming one of the best-selling Latin albums in history with the title song, "Bidi Bidi Bom Bom," "No Me Queda Más" and "Fotos y Recuerdos."
Your partner coming to you about something you’re doing wrong isn’t a personal attack. It’s a healthy sign they value the relationship and want to make it work – it's a heads up. You communicate, you fix it, you stay. That's emotional maturity. That's commitment. That's love.
Ghosting sends a message, but it's not communication because it lacks comprehension. When someone ghosts you, respect the dead and don't disturb them. Be with those who aren't afraid of difficult conversations and know how to communicate their situations and feelings effectively.
Crazy how peaceful life becomes when you detach from people's perceptions of you because you're not responsible for the version of you they've created in their minds.
Crazy how peaceful life becomes when you accept your flaws so no one can use them against you and accept who you are so no one can project who they are onto you.