Y’all want:
- neighbours who don’t ask for sugar
- friends that don’t vent
- community spaces without children
- people to hide their struggles
- people to have children they don’t want
- access to resources ONLY when it benefits you
- billionaires to exist
I just-
if the ache is there, the answer is yes. yes you’re meant for more. yes you can have it. yes it’s worth chasing. the only question left is whether you’ll listen to it or spend your life pretending you never felt it. you felt it. you still feel it. go.
also i’ve realised that you should take maximum one or two things completely, insanely seriously and be lighthearted about everything else, let things roll off your back
turning 34 next week. Childless. Single. Healthy. In the best shape of my life. Employed in a terrible economy. Still have my mom and dad. Mentally stable. Aaaaaah!😭💎🙏🏽
good grief I love earning money, I love working for a living, I love making my own money and rarely ever needing someone to provide for me
super grateful for a body that works and a mind so sharp
In order to heal, it’s imperative that we completely let go. Surrender the hurt. Surrender the pain. Surrender the desire for your side to be understood. Surrender the love that once was. Surrender the anxiety of what’s to come next in your life. It’s time to move on, my friend.
I used to be a firm believer in having a conversation before it gets to this point, bc just like any r/ship that you value, you’ve got to at least communicate. But I’ve quickly realised that someone can know you many years, but over a simple misunderstanding, mischaracterise you.
growing up means realizing that even if I am no one's pick, I have to be my own.
there must be some boundaries and some things I just do not tolerate. This is how I affirm that I truly do love myself. This is how I affirm my trust towards myself.
i promised myself endless restarts.
as many rebirths as my weary bones could handle.
and even if this is the 9th restart, its still mine. and i must begin again.