tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
i cannot even begin to explain how having a financially stable background will do wonders for your career as an adult. you can pivot careers , quit a toxic job , try out other ventures. the opportunities are sooo expanded.
If you got laid off tomorrow & had to replace your income ASAP, here's exactly what to do:
1. Go to Amazon and open a fresh account. Use a different name. It can be completely anonymous.
BREAKING NEWS: Neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr downplay your accomplishments. A job is a job. A car is a car. A house is a house. Be proud of yourself and what you have achieved no matter what. You have to build brick by brick.
No weapon formed against you shall prosper, And every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from Me,” Says the Lord - Isaiah 54:17
If you lost your job tomorrow & had to replace your salary asap, here's exactly what you should do:
Step 1: Go to Instagram and start a fresh account. Use a spare email. Nobody has to know.