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@CaitRoisc There's not exactly a remedy, but the way out is through, by forming stronger associations of the correct language in the correct context. i.e. build more memories in the appropriate language and your brain will catch on eventually.
@CaitRoisc Language acquisition is a lot more complex than this thread makes it seem, but this is a pretty normal phenomenon that anyone multilingual enough struggles with (my brain grabs for Japanese the moment I run out of words in Dutch, because I started learning Dutch in Japan)
@writerofscratch I've been in this boat with both a cishet group and an openly queer one, in both cases the intimacy of the space breaks down barriers. But only if everyone is on the same page? A closeted person would distance themselves in group A, and a cishet person might sit apart in group B.
@writerofscratch I'd say a qualified yes? like, you don't care about the nudity because *everybody* is naked, so you're not self-conscious, and you kinda end up on top of each other. but i think for a less lgbt-adjacent group, the mention of homosexuality might add some distance between patrons.
@ScriptingJapan Getting to the point where I could legitimately notice "the writing in this book is garbage" was such a freeing moment in my learning journey.
@writerofscratch yeah any time I see someone is a "hyperpolyglot" I immediately disregard. Fluency in multiple languages is doable but pretty close to untenable past like 4 languages. Language proficiency takes constant maintenance because your brain keeps trying to chuck out stale languages.