@AHOF_official Wala na.. wala na talagang pag-asang magkaayos pa ang lahat. Dahil yun sayo @fnfent_official. Ginusto mo to panindigan mo. Alam mo nang araw araw na nga May isyu dumagdag ka pa.. ay hindi ikaw pala nag-umpisa nito.
JL, Juwon, and Daisuke together in a dance cover? Instant mood booster!โค๏ธThey really move like a winning unit!๐
Head over to AHOFโs socials to show love and support for this latest drop!
#AHOF#์ํ#AHOF_JL#์ ์ด์@AHOF_official
WARNING!!! Mahaba po ito. Kailangan ko lang mailabas.
To some ๐โโฌ/OT9 fans:
Tanggapin niyo rin sana na may mga taong nakitang mali o hindi okay sa ginawa niya. Hindi matatabunan ng โnormal lang โyan sa K-popโ ang ginawa niyang pag-tapik sa puwet, dahil hindi naman lahat ng fans pare-pareho ang edad, pananaw, background, at impression sa artist. Diverse ang fandom, kaya hindi pwedeng โokay lang kasi normal naman โyan sa K-pop.โ It does not automatically mean that every fan has to be comfortable with it.
Mag-reflect din. Hindi perfect ang idol niyo, and thatโs okay. Pwede siyang mag-adjust, just as fans can also adjust their expectations and boundaries. Huwag niyong sabihin na hindi kailangang mag-adjust ang idol sa fans dahil connected sila sa isaโt isa.
You can defend your idol or explain your interpretation without mocking or portraying fans as villains just because they have concerns or feel uncomfortable. Once you start laughing at or ridiculing them, itโs no longer simply defending your idol - it becomes an invalidation of their feelings.
Defending your idol doesn't require saying things like:
โOA kayo.โ
โToxic talaga mga ๐ stans.โ
โAng babaw niyo.โ
โGumagawa lang kayo ng issue.โ
โKayo lang naman may problema.โ
Acknowledging someone's feelings does NOT mean agreeing with their interpretation.
Defend your idol - YES.
Explain your interpretation - YES.
Disagree with other fans - YES.
Mock people for being uncomfortable - NO.
Make them look stupid or toxic just because they disagree - NO.
Generalize or attack his fans - NO.
Kung kailangan ng constructive criticism, maging open tayo. Hindi naman kailangang maging perfect ang idol para mahalin at suportahan siya. Sometimes, loving and supporting someone also means being willing to acknowledge when something could have been handled better.
____________________________________________________
To some ๐๐ฆfans:
Hindi masamang mag-raise ng concerns if you are uncomfortable, but be mindful sa paggamit ng words, especially if they come across as accusatory or mocking toward the person involved. Again, iba-iba rin ang interpretation ng bawat tao, and others may become defensive, lalo na kung tingin nila ay masisira ang image ng idol nila.
If may nakita tayong mali or something that made us uncomfortable, sabihin natin in a reasonable way. We can call out an action without attacking the person. Avoid mocking or villainizing him and even his fans kasi nawawala ang point ng concern. Instead of encouraging a meaningful discussion, nagiging ugat pa ito ng away.
Minsan, hindi naman talaga ang concern mismo ang nagvi-villainize sa isang tao, but kung paano ito dine-deliver. Kapag accusatory, mocking, or overly harsh ang way ng pag-present ng argument, madaling ma-frame ang taong involved as the โbad guy,โ kahit ang original intention naman ay mag-raise lang ng concern.
Don't use your concern as an excuse to attack or villainize the person involved. You can call something out without turning it into a personal attack.
Raise your concerns - YES.
Explain why you're uncomfortable - YES.
Call out something you believe was inappropriate - YES.
Mock or villainize the person involved - NO.
Generalize or attack his fans - NO.
At the end of the day, we can be protective of ๐/๐ฆwithout turning every concern into a fanwar. If our intention is to protect him or make people understand why we're uncomfortable, let's make sure the way we communicate doesn't drown out the actual concern. As a ๐ fan, masakit ma-label na akgae or toxic, lalo na kung ang intention mo naman ay simply to want the best for him.
___________________________________________________
Both sides are allowed to have their own interpretation. Both sides are allowed to defend their idols. But neither side should use their interpretation as an excuse to bully, mock, invalidate, or attack the other.
@Vebs909@taeminrose_13@ashiii0320 E ano ba kung bago o matagal na sa kpop? Ang ginawa ni H ay mali, nakakadiri, nakawalang respeto. Sa harap pa talaga ng camera na madaming nakakakita na mga bata. Wag nyo inormalize yung mga ganyang gawain na halata mo naman talagang mali..
all or nothing on the spot cover by jl
listen to him sing beautifully, hit all the notes, add his own flavor to the song, harmonize and do adlibs too ๐ญ
MY MAIN VOCALIST EVERYONE!!!