That is why you would always see me say this to married couples.
"May the love of God never depart from your home"
A home without God is bound to fail.
It doesn't matter what God you worship or how you worship.
And failed marriage is not necessarily a divorced marriage.
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The true test of your husband's kindness will be when you start to have kids.
Judge him by the way he shows them love & sacrifice.
Before he drinks a drop of water, you & your kids should've drank a cup.
May you not be with a man that'll go out to eat, while you starve.
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And if you're a married yahoo boy.
You're married to a low quality wife.
A wife that cannot tell your children that stealing is bad.
Shame on you & your wife.
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Again, I want to remind wives.
Do not do anything financial for the family without your husband's consent or permission.
Even if he's temporarily jobless, or you're earning more than your husband.
You'll bruise his ego, & he'll abandon his responsibilities for you.
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The only things that qualify a man to marry a wife are:
1) He must have a roof over his head
2) He must be making legitimate income & be kind
3) He must not be lazy
4) He must be good in bed & be able to father children
5) He must not be a mummy's boy
That's all he needs.
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For most of you single ladies.
Your future husbands will not be rich before you get married to them.
They'll not have a car or any major properties, & their salaries will not be fantastic.
So if you're busy, waiting for an "Odogwu", you're waiting in vain.
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If your husband pays for the:
1) rent
2) school fees
3) feeding
4) utility bills
5) holidays
6) clothings
7) cars, phones, & emergencies etc
You have no excuses not to help him raise responsible children.
And he has every justification to blame you for their failure.
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If you're always shying away from telling your woman the truth, just because you don't want to hurt her feelings, you can't lead her.
Women are naturally stubborn.
If she sees that you're always enabling her wrong deeds, she'll not trust your leadership.
You're weak to her.
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I've made many mistakes or wrong judgments in my life.
But one area I know I did not make the wrong choice, is the choice of my wife.
Regardless, I still see my wife as a woman.
And if I lose my guard, she will show me that she's a woman.
Those who know us, will most likely
For many of you single women in your 20s and in the corporate world.
Don't ignore genuine relationships in the name of I want to focus on my career.
You'll go so deep into your career and grow in it.
And by the time you get to your late 20s and early 30s, you would have
Imagine writing the name of your intended spouse on a piece of paper to give to a religious leader in the name of "vision".
Religion has made many people to marry the wrong spouse.
Marriage is cultural, & a union of families.
Religion should never trample on tradition.
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