I’m not in findom as a get-rich-quick thing. I’m in it because I like watching men get on their knees and worship me while I play in their wallets. Simple.
Mutual respect goes both ways. Being a Dom doesn’t mean you get to jump into someone’s comments or DMs talking down to them, and being a sub doesn’t mean you get to come in with zero manners hoping they’ll play along.
If you like being put in your place, great. If you like giving someone a little attitude, also great. But maybe have a conversation first? Figure out the dynamic and the boundaries, then have fun with it.
Respect the person first. The rest comes after. It really shouldn’t be that complicated.