There’s no formula. You can build a woman’s confidence, elevate her lifestyle, and give her more options, only to become the man she outgrows. Sometimes you don’t lose her because you failed. You lose her because you helped create the woman who no longer sees you as enough.
CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG BUT, As I turn 43 this year, I have realised, as a man, no one cares about you. Not your wife. Not your family. Not your friends. Not your workmates. Nobody. People act like they care, but deep down, they don't. You are on your own. Always on your own.
THIS IS HOW KENYA CAN BE A DEVELOPED NATION
1. End Corruption & genuinely .. No one should bribe to get public tender. And no one must bribe to be paid contract dues. No one should pay to see the President or any other public official.
2. Wealth declarations by all public officials from the President to the tea girl be made available online. Source of the money for the assets be made available in the same portal. Public officials wealth must match public salaries.
3. Senior public officials including the President, DP, all Cabinet Ministers, PSes, CEOs, MPs, Senators, Governors, MCAs et al must never trade with Government in any way.
4. Let salaries of Police, teachers & doctors begin with minimum salary Kshs. 150,000/= . For these three categories, we must attract our brightest.
5. Leaders must take responsibility for moral lapses. Leadership should not be a refugee of moral perverts & degenerates. There should be no whiff of scandal. A leader must be like Caesar’s wife!
6. Strengthen & equip the education system from kindergarten to University to be one that incubates curiosity, invention, creativity, patriotism, knowledge & integrity. Let the system reward hard work & cognitive intelligence.
7. Infrastructure like roads, railway lines, ports, power supply et al should connect the whole country without political favourism or bias. Development should never be tangled for votes.
8. Make Kenya self sufficient in food with surplus for export. A well fed & nourished Kenyan is good to focus on building posterity for all. A hungry or malnourished Kenyan is focused on surviving the next day & not bothered about any legacy.
Anything outside above, is aimed to excite gullible Kenyans to vote in the next General Elections.
Yesterday, I met an influential MP from Nyanza & he told me that pro-Government MPs are awash with money from political brokerage & tenders bribes. But that sadly, nearly all the Billions are hoarded in the MPs or banks with weak regulatory controls. The only silver lining is weekend Harambees now raise millions. None of the MPs is running any company that employs people or generates more wealth. It is a sad indictment of our patronage political system & weak anti-corruption controls. We are building a truly BANANA REPUBLIC like DR Congo, Haiti & Nigeria. Kenya is capable of being a Denmark if we have the political will.
@Beekay2000@MetOrjiChukwudi@Am_Blujay You are talking out of ignorance. If you don't have facts to back what you are saying then why say it. Vala umlomo wakho. Voetsek!
Modern women want an above average man with an average man’s schedule. You want a successful man who’s ambitious, disciplined, and wealthy, but somehow always free and available. That’s not how reality works.
Men chase sex because they mistake it for intimacy. Women chase attention because they mistake it for love. That’s why so many people end up used, disappointed, and calling it dating.