@anaqmane The thing is a little mothering/ nurturing here and there is okay, imo. I acc enjoy pampering a good man. But babying or directing him all the time, nah 😅
Many men are fun to date, not to marry.
When you marry someone, you see their everyday habits. Many men are domestically lazy/ untrained which to women makes them look childish. And once that mother-son dynamic shows up, sexual attraction fades.
A common reason I’ve noticed.
There’s a TikTok video in which the comments are full of married women talking about how they hate sex so much with their husbands😭 all of them would never get married again in their next life
@delanniee And it’s acc not a nice feeling, having to direct someone most of the time. Then they resent you for it cause no one likes constant criticism 😩
@Lemo_93 My housemate (lady) and I naturally look after the house. It’s never even had to be a discussion, we naturally take turns with things and no one has to manage the other. I love it!