I don't believe a person is good or bad.
I believe a huge chunk of us are just a living reflection of our circumstances(victim of circumstances).
Under the right conditions, I'm a staunch believer of people being capable of both good and bad.
I think the golden rule is,
Don't let no one raise you higher than you raise yourself — be your biggest cheerleader.
Don't let no one put you down, harder than you put yourself — be your biggest critic!
Be self-critical.
I love people that set standards ehn...
By all means, have it. But it only hold credence to me, when you hold yourself to the same sets of standards.
Else you just another double faced cheat.
And I hate hypocrites.
I'm such a “worst case scenario guy ”, in my mind, I've already played out a lot of instances and how worst they can come out. That way, I better brace myself for shocks.
You know what's frustrating? Seeing something, instantly knowing you can do it better.
But you haven't worked your way into a position of trust yet.
In plain words, no evidence!
Once beaten. Twice shy. Lol not for me...
Sometimes you've got to repeat the initial mistake just to check if the error came through poor execution
So, twice beaten. Thrice shy.
Projecting your traumas on other people's lives cos of your own bad experiences won't make other persons experiences better. Let people live.
You'd just end up becoming some other overbearing oversabi just because you mean well...
Just saying.