@pulte Notifications are always on, all the way from South Africa ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@pulte I do have a sobbing story, probably the most sad one. I’m from Africa, poor and worst conditions. I often go to bed without food and if I’m lucky with just chips… But also may the best person win 🫶🏼🫶🏼❤️❤️
People pleasing is exhausting and leads to resentment.
It's also a coping mechanism we learned to stay safe.
Here's how to stop people pleasing, to become more authentic in your relationships.
A THREAD 🧵:
When I look at the Zanele Sifuba unfortunate incident I remember being on the phone with my mother for over an hour after my Dick was doing rounds. Had never heard her so disappointed, she cried throughout the call and I haven’t been able to forgive myself….
So lately I been applying for anything,qualify or not I apply,so last night I applied for senior program developer😂today they called and told me they don’t see any experience on my Cv did I perhaps forgot to send updated Cv,I’m like no mam but I’m a fast learner,she hunged up 😭
The definition of a successful woman in South Africa is bare minimum
Nge salary nyana ka R15 Tauzen “Men can’t handle successful women” 😭
Umuntu nge Picanto nyana eyi1🚗Sekavuka nge Coffee☕ ne gown Ayokhahleka ama Tyre ekseni.. 😭😭