I found this really cute illustration of grown up transitioned Akari and Pikachu made by @fourleafisland, but unfortunately didn't get to use it in the video. I'm taking the liberty to share it here because I think you'll enjoy it :)
It's important to remember that even trans people do the top to their friends for a little bit immediately after they come out because that's how the human brain works, but it really isn't that hard and you unlearn it in like 2 days