Modern Men's Guide

She'll notice something different about you

[Modern Men's Guide @ModernMenGuide]

Six Male Personalities of Modern Men Explained:

(What Each Type Brings to the Table)

Open Thread -

[Manifest_Lord @Manifest_Lord]

YOUR MARRIAGE IS BORING BECAUSE IT HAS NO SIDE QUESTS.

Here are 18 side quests to complete before DECEMBER.. 👇 🧵

[Scott Brooks @scotti_brooks]

5 Signs You Have got a Little Super Genius born At Home... 👇 🧵

1. Talks a Lot..

[himanshu @himanshustwts]

there is so much going on in the <30B model post-training space (especially with the growing focus on consumer applications).

a lab recently did some interesting work adding MLA (from DeepSeek) to Qwen3.8 27B to hillclimb on benchmarks. given that they are also working on brain-AI interfaces, it makes a lot of sense to finetune models of this class to make them faster + less verbose.

i also think open-source environments are a pretty good starting point these days for getting into model post-training at scale, especially when the goal is to focus on specific capabilities that align with broader RnD efforts.

[mika kilpelainen @mikakilpelaine1]

How different would your life be if you actually knew how to use AI to harness the power that used to be reserved for the richest people in the world and A-grade celebrities?

Because most people will talk about how AI is changing their life but they won’t show you how to use it to make YOUR life better

[Mike Cleans @cleanwithmike]

Things you should've done in 2021:

• Learn AI
• Invest in stocks
• Lock in a 3% mortgage

Things you should do in 2027:

[Gedam Tekle @gedamtekle]

If I had to use Grokbot to make an extra $5k/month by the end of 2026, here's exactly what I'd do:

1. Get the app &amp; give it this prompt:

[Fathers Diary @Fathers_Diary]

TO ALL MEN, YOU CAN:

Be lost at 26.

Broke at 30.

In shape at 32.

Rich at 35.

Unrecognizable at 40.

As a man, your life will 100% transform when you cut out these toxic habits...

[learn skills2.0 @_learnskills]

7 exercises that may help correct knock knees.

[Forge Mode | Self-Mastery® @HoliHappiness]

A man told a therapist:

“I’ve been married for 15 years. I still love my wife, but I fantasize about other women. I don’t want to leave my marriage.”

The therapist’s response was brutally simple:

Your fantasy isn't necessarily the problem.

What you do with it is.

Attraction doesn't disappear because you got married.

Your brain will still notice novelty.

The important question isn't whether you ever notice someone else.

It's whether you turn that thought into a life you're trying to escape into.

Sometimes you don't want another person.

You want another feeling.

Novelty.
Excitement.
Curiosity.
Being desired.
Feeling different.
The person in your fantasy can become a symbol for something missing in your everyday life.
Familiarity can quietly kill attention.
After 15 years, you know her routines.
Her expressions.
Her stories.
Her habits.

That's comfortable.

But comfort can make you stop noticing the person standing right in front of you.

Don't compare your wife to a fantasy.

A fantasy has no bad mornings.
No arguments.
No stress.
No responsibilities.
No difficult days.
It's an edited version of reality.

You're comparing a real human being with an imaginary one.

That's a rigged competition.

Desire sometimes needs you to LOOK again.

Not at your wife as “the person I've been with for 15 years.”

But as the woman you once couldn't stop thinking about.
Curiosity matters.
Attention matters.
Seeing someone again after you've become accustomed to them can change everything.

Long-term relationships need novelty too.

Try a restaurant you've never visited.

Take a spontaneous trip.

Dress differently for each other.

Have conversations you've never had.

Break the routine.

You don't always need a new person.

Sometimes you need a new experience with the same person.

And don't confuse distance with neglect.

Having separate interests, friends, hobbies and time alone can be healthy.

But disappearing emotionally isn't mystery.

It's disconnection.

The goal isn't to make your partner chase you.

It's to remain two complete people who still choose each other.

The biggest mistake?

Assuming that because the relationship feels familiar, the person has become boring.

Maybe you simply stopped being curious.

After 15 years, you shouldn't know EVERYTHING about your partner.

You should still be discovering things.

That's where a lot of long-term happiness lives.

Sometimes the relationship doesn't need a new person.

It needs two people who are willing to see each other differently again.

[Brutal Game @brutal_truth0]

7 Things That Create INSANE Sexual Chemistry

You can find someone physically attractive...

And still feel absolutely nothing.

Because attraction gets attention.

Chemistry creates desire.

Here’s what builds it:

🧵

1. Eye contact that lasts slightly too long.

Not staring.

Just that extra second where both of you know something is happening.

2. Playful teasing.

Chemistry needs some friction.

Laugh.

Challenge each other.

Stop treating every conversation like a job interview.

3. Getting physically closer naturally.

Sitting closer.

Walking together.

Small, comfortable touches.

When it's mutual, distance tends to disappear.

4. Conversations that become personal.

Not:

“What do you do?”

“What did you study?”

Talk about experiences.

Desires.

Embarrassing stories.

Things you normally don't tell everyone.

5. Not revealing everything immediately.

Leave something to discover.

Mystery disappears when you dump your entire life story on the first date.

6. Making her feel desired without making her feel pressured.

There's a difference.

A woman can enjoy knowing you want her...

without wanting every interaction turned sexual.

7. Knowing when the moment is mutual.

This is where socially aware men separate themselves.

She moves closer.

You move closer.

She reciprocates.

You reciprocate.

Nobody has to force the energy.

Brutal truth:

Sexual chemistry isn't something you manufacture with tricks.

It's what happens when attraction, tension, comfort and mutual desire meet at the same time.

If you're the only one feeling it, it isn't chemistry.

[DML | DurableManLecture📃 @DurableMLecture]

A low value man:

• sends voice notes
• sends emojis
• communicates with her everyday

Yet she ghosts him.

But a high value man:

[Woman Think @woman_think]

CHEAT SHEET:

HOW TO MAKE HER MISS YOU WITHOUT CHASING

1. Stop initiating every conversation.

[Men's Standards @MensStandards]

7 moments your wife remembers about you for the rest of her life

These are the moments that stay with her:

[Modern Men's Guide @ModernMenGuide]

Video editing has always had a gap between what you imagine and what you know how to execute. AI is starting to close that gap, letting creators focus more on the story they want to tell.

[HyperFrames @HyperFrames_]

the editing techniques and styles you thought were unattainable

now just one reference prompt away:

- the hook from an Instagram reel
- the b-roll style from a TikTok
- the captions from a YouTube Short

then automatically apply them to your footage with your story

get started ↓

[Scott Brooks @scotti_brooks]

If you're raising kids right now, don't miss these 12 things before it's too late

Parenting is long, but childhood is short.

Childhood doesn't announce when it's moving on.

One day they need you for everything. Then suddenly... they don't.

Don't miss these... 👇 🧵

[Manifest_Lord @Manifest_Lord]

My wife and I added one warm ritual before bed,

and we both admitted: We hadn't felt anything like this even at 20: 🧵👇

[Rohan Paul @rohanpaul_ai]

Some of the most interesting agent results this year are coming out of post-trains of small open models.

A new RL post-train Qwen3.8-27B model trained with an open-source environments cuts the hallucination rate on AA-Omniscience from 30.4% to 15.1%.

the compressed copy of the mla version fits on my single 24 GB RTX 4090 and holds about 3.5x more context than base Qwen.

It beats GPT 6 Luna-medium on DeepSWE, placing in between Luna 6 medium and high.
scores higher on Terminal-Bench 2.1 while writing a median 23.8K output tokens per solved task, where base Qwen writes 54.9K.

Tried an unreleased version of this model, and really felt the comparative intelligent density, that it writes a lot less.

tops Muse Glimmer 30B and OpenAI’s GPT-6 Luna (high) on Terminal-Bench, τ³-bench, ClawEval and BFCL v4 (Berkeley Function Calling Leaderboard), though Luna still wins DeepSWE at 53.1%.

They also released an MLA version, which is the same model with its 16 full-attention layers converted to multi-head latent attention, which shrinks the memory each token takes from 64 KiB to 18 KiB so far more or longer sessions fit on one GPU.

[Brian Roemmele @BrianRoemmele]

A small team just took a 27B open model and cut its hallucinations in half.

Built on Qwen, trained only on open-source environments, and it beats GPT-6 Luna on Terminal-Bench.

It also writes half the words to get the job done.

Their second version runs 7 long agent sessions at once on a single gaming card.

Free. Apache 2.0. Yours to run.

This is how local AI wins. I have been saying it for years, but I am a nerd.

[Revolutionary_Man @Revolt_Man_]

Most guys think good sex is:

• Three minutes of foreplay.
• Five minutes of thrusting.
• Then it is over.

Men who are actually good in bed:

1. They don’t rush foreplay

[TheActionableMind @ActionableMind]

Most guys think being good in bed means lasting longer.

• She gets turned on.
• He tries to impress her.
• He finishes and calls it a night.

A man who understands intimacy knows that paying attention beats trying to prove himself.