From today and for the rest of life
I will experience ease.
Life will not be unnecessarily difficult for me. I attract wealth and desired knowledge to get by. The universe supports me and puts me in a favourable spot.
Stressful situations will elude me
God will not leave me🦋🦋
@muslimnews_NG@MUSWEN1429@mpacng it is time to apply the same level of urgency and public outcry to the threats of terrorism and banditry, rather than focusing on irrelevant matters
unlearn shame. all forms of shame: unemployment, illness, vulnerability, longing, desire, errors, failures. you do not need to feel ashamed of what you are experiencing or living. freedom and shame cannot coexist.
@Blakqmamba As a woma, staying with a partner who lacks ambition will inevitably hold you back, as your contrasting mindsets regarding growth, risk, and standards make a shared future unsustainable
This is a shame to Nigeria…
A Malian Soldier dragging a dead body of JNIM terrorists, also said in French "stupid terrorists if you want to stay alive go to Nigeria and do Dialogue, here in Mali we only kill terrorists no Dialogue"
I blame those Yeye Governors who did Dialogue with Bandits terrorists. They brought the disrespect to our troops.
@Inquisitivejoey@RecruitmentPq This isn't gibberish, it is informative and just because you can’t see the value doesn’t mean the next generation isn’t ready to run with .
That it doesn't make sense to you doesn't apply to the next person ....
I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner.
Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs.
If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.
@TheHost_ My brain has already written three different endings to this story, Just end my misery and tell me the real one b4 anxiety gets the best of me 😭😭
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