normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. giving you all of the right words, but none of the right actions is called manipulation. when a person wants to be with you, they prove it
don’t teach your man how to be your man, don’t ask him to show you off, don’t ask him to text you, don’t ask him to care about you, don’t ask him to bring you flowers, don’t ask him to plan dates and don’t beg for love. the right man will do anything & everything for you
In a relationship, there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. when you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.