dating someone who understands your mental health is soooo important. there's humans who will make you feel terrible for things you can't or don't know how to control.
Sometimes you gotta remind people... I was already chosen before you arrived. Already blessed. Already building. You was an addition to the frequency, not the source of it.
i hope you remember it's very human and normal to crave affection, human interaction, attention and love. you're not "too needy" or "too sensitive" for wanting to have your emotional and social needs met accordingly.
i lied, i didn't go to sleep, i actually stayed up all night with tears rolling down my face wondering why i'm never good enough for anyone and what i did to deserve all of this.
I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!
it kinda makes me sad when I reflect back on instances where ppl knew exactly what they were doing & how it would hurt me & went ahead anyway. The ease of being casually so insidious will never not shock me
i can't be your peace if you're not providing the environment for me to provide the peace. stop expecting from a woman you constantly giving problems, challenges and you're not providing a safe space for me. peace is present where security is found.