my guess is right, this was the former BBN winner, Phyna.
Her travails validates one of my favorite finance counsels:
"Learn to budget your generosity".
In the words of Robert Kiyosaki:
"Money without financial intelligence is money soon gone."
When you don't plan for your money, people will help you make plans for it.
And trust me, they won't even include you in the plans for your own money.