ji chang wook: “i’m not interested in other people’s relationships, and I’d rather they didn’t take an interest in mine either.”
gentlest roast i’ve ever seen
I don't think I need to make this post, but I still want to anyway. Since for the I-can't-count-anymore, things like this keep happening around my loves: my fandom and my two lovely man.
Remember Jimmy once said, "No expectations, no disappointment." directly, from his mouth. Which is, that's exactly what he's been asking to us all this time.
We all love them, I know. We just want them to also love us back, that's for sure. We give them our love, so why can't they give the same amount of love for us. Yeah, that's fair enough.
Having hope, expectation, request, wishlist or asking for something is never wrong. Being sad and hurt when all of those you want didn't even become a thing is also not wrong. NEVER, really.
But when all the feelings mix up, make you start to lose your mind and then becoming out of sense; that's when the problem begin. And I can say, you don't have any right to hoping for anything no more.
" Love yourselves first more than you love us. "
That's also what our man been saying in the past. They never forget to check on us, one of them always ask about whether we already eat or not; to make sure we can go back safely, say thank you for coming to see them, stay in the seat for longer time than others just to make sure they can greet and thank us all till the end.
They're good, my loves. 🥹
Our JimmySea is always been good.
What makes them seem less care to us is because our own expectations. Especially since we didn't get as much moments like they had in the past. Like the way they share it back then. So many change, so many new things, so much different situations happened that make us keep wondering. I know and I understand. Some of it even becoming source of invalid news, being a nonsense rumors, to the point they need to keep say it again and again;
"We're okay, everything is normal."
But why ... some us act like we don't need to know that?
Like, no matter how many times they say it, they show it, they let us know, but still, this thing today keep happening 🥹
No need to say, right? But then why we started to demand them to keep saying everything?
I don't really want to blame anyone, like others already said in the timeline, all the thought and feelings are valid. It's okay to feel that way. If it's can makes you feel better or less frustrated, that's fine. The thing not okay is when you start to throw hate and bad speculations to both of them, which you said you love them. Right? Then, why?
Don't forget how many good times and happiness we already share together, as fandom; NomNom and with JimmySea. Just because one thing being forgotten, doesn't mean they love us less. Mutual understanding is needed here.
Let's be real. As fans, we can't always hype them or be with them for 24/7. So I think it's also okay for them if they couldn't always gives us what we wants.
It's up to us. It's up to them. Win win solution. Back to my second paragraph sentence.
One last thing I want to say is;
Before you guys get mad or sad, remember what we've been through on this since day one. Reason why we can stay with JimmySea to this day. Because we create our fandom like this for them. With our loves; sincerity, patience, and much understanding.
Proud as NomNom.
Proud to JimmySea.
To we all, please take good care of your health. Both mentally and physically. 💜💙✨
Let's keep support #JimmySea and pray the best for IWASY till the end. 🤟🏻
As for @jimmyyjp_ & @Sea_tawinan , you both did great today. Thank you for making such a special moments for us again. Don't forget to get enough rest na~ love chuu so muuuccch 💋
sea's energy will never fail him 😆 made merit with jimmy's family earlier in the day, then went straight to the concert with his friends. he really knows how to make the most of every moment 🥹🩵
#JimmyLevel32ndUnlocked#PondPhuwinConcertD1#sea_tawinan