1) Spiritual grounding. You don’t have to be Christian, but I need you to believe in something bigger than yourself or at least have values that anchor you.
2) Monogamy. Obviously, relationships can evolve over time, but starting out? I want exclusivity.
3) Emotional intelligence. Honestly, this should’ve been #1
Four white men have more wealth than half the planet… & you still think a brown immigrant is why you’re struggling? 😭😭 Explain that to me like I’m five.