ternyata bukan salah jurusan, bukan salah pilihan, bukan salah jalan, bukan salah keadaan, bukan salah pergaulan, bukan salah pemahaman…
EMANG GUE AJA YANG KAGAK KARUAN 😭🙏🏻 it’s me, hi, i’m the problem, it’s me 🧍🏻♀️
@ermaayuf@txtharihariWNI selama ini semua yang mutusin, deal atau nggaknya, memang suami. Tapi di balik itu kan sudah berembug dengan istri.
Lu baca ga si anj
@ermaayuf@txtharihariWNI Aku tinggal suami di rumah sama tetangga ini. Dan di posisi ini aku bilang, “Mas, maaf aku mau jemput anakku sebentar. Udah Magrib, udah dari tadi dititip sama neneknya. Untuk semua keputusan aku serahkan ke suami karena menghargai.”
Aku bilang semua keputusan ke suami karena
Dari pengalamanku, pemerkosaan dan kekerasan seksual terjadi JIKA DAN HANYA JIKA laki2 tidak bisa menahan diri
Ku pernah ke nude beach (orangnya pada telanjang bulat) di Belanda dan gaada kasus pelecehan. Di Indo? Pake cadar aja diperkosa. Berhenti salahkan pakaian wanita.
I dropped my daughter off at a sleepover and went home to finish some work.
Around 11pm, she texted me: "Dad, did you feed the fish?"
We don't have a fish. That was our code.
"Fish" means:
"Come get me, don't ask questions here."
I grabbed my keys and drove straight over.
When I got there, I told the other parents she'd forgotten she had an early appointment tomorrow morning.
She grabbed her bag, thanked them, and got in the car.
On the way home, she told me what actually happened.
The girls had started passing around someone's older brother's Instagram messages, planning to prank call a boy from their grade and record his reaction to post online.
She didn't want to be there when it happened, and didn't want to explain that to a room full of girls who thought it was funny.
I told her: "You don't owe anyone an explanation for leaving," and she fell asleep in the car before we even got home.
Kids should always have a way out of a situation that doesn't feel right, no interrogation required, no story owed to anyone but the parent picking them up.
guys remember…
- bawa pembalut di tas itu NORMAL
- ada noda haid di celana itu NORMAL
- ada tubuh bulu di ketiak itu NORMAL
- kegelapan dibagian lipatan tubuh itu NORMAL
- nangis karena hal kecil itu NORMAL
jadi stop judge atau mandang aneh dan memalukan ya!!!