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Loved by God and am okay☺️

[🦋J Ni Fa🦋 @MosesJennifer16]

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Sometimes peace means protecting your space - 👌

[🦋J Ni Fa🦋 @MosesJennifer16]

learn the difference between your intuition guiding you and your trauma misleading you 💯

Happy Sunday 🙏🙌

[Naija @Naija_PR]

Make you no go collect🤝

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Good God that loves me..

Happy Sunday pals…

[🦋J Ni Fa🦋 @MosesJennifer16]

Consistently Backed up & Covered by God🙌✨

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[🦋J Ni Fa🦋 @MosesJennifer16]

Many times we put our dreams on hold in expectation of something we are chasing at the moment, and then when it fails, we go back to the exact moment we were before the new pursuit!
I’m here to tell you to try and give them both a 100, so if it fails or succeeds, wins is involve

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[ỌMỌ́TÁRÁ LAWRENCE @theladymotara]

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Knowing Jesus makes me happy!😀❣️

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

As you are hustling, ensure you have a healthy relationship. Stop doing gidigbo with your life. You need someone to come home to after a long day of work.

Work is not your life, it is not family, it is not love. You can hustle and enjoy love. They are not mutually exclusive.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Men need to understand that allowing women do everything they want and not holding them accountable is not love, it is not leadership. Even love can be tough sometimes because you are always going to make impossible decisions.

Know this, whenever her emotions clashes with the right thing, always do the right thing. She will be fine. The relationship must always come first and you must protect her from even herself.

Disappointing people is the professional hazard of leadership. But you want to go to bed at night knowing you did the right thing. Stop running away from saying the truth or doing the right thing because she will be offended or throw tantrums. That is already a ground to throw her away.

You must always stamp your masculinity when you are convinced about the right. She lives in your world and you'll always be responsible for the consequences of everything in your relationship. Grow up and man up.

[🦋J Ni Fa🦋 @MosesJennifer16]

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[Musa Dickson @Diqsen]

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[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

In selecting a kind partner, remember not to date people who esteem money and things money can buy above human relationship. You mistakenly stain their cloth for an event and they want to rip your head off. Their phone slipped from your hand and they curse you with everything above and beneath heaven or even tear you a slap. Something happened to their laptop while you were using it and you never hear the last of it about how much it cost and how clumsy you are. Run oooo. Date people who are empathetic and genuinely kind. People who understand mistakes and not kill you for it.

Years ago in 300 level, I saw a lady crying outside my hostel in company of her friends who were consoling her. She was shaking and crying that her boyfriend will kill her. Why? His iPad fell from her hands. My friend I was walking with said "Ahhhh, you know how much be iPad? Omo." I told him that iPad might be costly but it is just an iPad and the iPad is not the problem here, it is the relationship. Nobody should be this terrified of their partner. If she is cryng that he will kill her, there is a much deeper underlying problem. He probably beats her on a norm. It couldn't have been deliberate. It could have slipped from anybody.

I often say that if your partner drives your car out and they bashed it, your first reaction should be whether they are okay and take them to the hospital for a test. It is just a car. You cannot esteem a car over your partner's life. You can always fix it or buy a new one - no matter how long it takes. In a manner of speaking, you need to focus on people who are genuinely kind as a personality. Those are the ones who can be actually kind in relationship because you can't give what you don't have. Factor that in when choosing a partner.

In 400l a hostel mate borrowed my phone to receive some files and it slipped from his hand and cracked. He came to me and told me about it and the repairer billed him 14k. I split the bill with him. I knew it was a mistake and how do I expect him to survive if he paid for it alone? I wasnt even sure he had the money. In Law School, I was sleeping but woke up for a moment when I saw my roommate hit my laptop and it fell to the floor. It was a mistake. He thought I was sleeping. He picked it up and he never mentioned it. I didn't either because I saw it was a mistake and I didn't see the point of making a fuss. First time my partner cooked for me, she wanted to cook the stew the way I cooked mine to make me happy but she wasn't sure it came out the way it was supposed to. I just laughed and told her that it was okay and next time she should cook anything her own way. I want to eat her food. It is her home so she should be free to do things to her taste. I appreciated the meal and kissed her because it was made with love. That is more important than the taste and the cost. She is a very good cook by the way. What is the worse that would have happened? We would have cooked another one or laughed over it.

I gave all these examples because I need you to know it is about personality. Everyone that knows me in person knows I do not have attachment to money or anything money can buy. My belief is that if it costs money, it can be replaced. I have my personal values and humanity is at the very top of it.

I have seen people receive beating or slaps or curses for the most flimsy reason. Many are afraid of their partners. Many people have even told me they are afraid to send a message to their own partner because they fear their reaction. That is not a home of love. The world is cold, home should bring you peace. Your partner is home.

[𝐀𝐔𝐍𝐓𝐘 𝐀𝐃𝐀 @Auntyadaa]

At the end of the day,

Love still wins.
Prayer still works.
God is still able.