That's the painful part nobody warns you about, when love turns to leverage.
A man weaponizing his own children's health just to punish their mother? That's not just separation, that's showing his true character. Your mum carrying a convulsing child home on her back... the kind of memory that hardens you for life.
This is why "marry a good man" feels like weak advice to many women now. Kindness is beautiful, but it shouldn't be your only survival plan.
@sarletlee@1nuolah@Sisi_Yemmie@TheAdukeIbadan You didn't get his explanation, he still cheated you of 5k be cause he didn't actually sold the 5k fuel, they knew the customer may catch them. So he sold the 45k and still withhold the 5k only if he sold the full 50k.. they've done it for me too so I got what he said.
incase you weren't raised correctly, i think it’s a mans job to set the tone in a relationship; whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. she takes what he gives and reflects it. when a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. she becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted.
@alexlobaloba That feeling when you nail the perfect response at just the right moment? It's like a little 'selah' in life, you know? It makes you pause and appreciate that moment of clarity. It's satisfying when your words just click and make sense.
@king_pearxe In my office, I have definitely experience alot of shenanigans made by some women simply because they are career driven.
One resumed work in 24hrs after childbirth, she already got a nanny and said the baby doesn't need her. And the earlier she gets her body smashing the better.
@eezharhh Not being sentimental, she is smart and the husband should also applaud her for that, because it will also give him the opportunity to confirm if he is also sexually safe... its nothing to be ashamed of if you are clean.
I genuinely get so happy when my friends hit milestones, share good news, or even when they’re expectant of something great. Their joy feels just as real to me—as if it were happening in my own life.
Sometimes I don’t see people talk about celebrating others this way, and it makes me wonder… is this normal? But honestly, I think it’s a beautiful thing to feel deeply for the people you care about.