Motunrayo Suberu (Laguda)

A passionate culinary artist, I have formally honed my craft through intensive training in both Professional Culinary Arts and as a Private Chef.

[Motunrayo Suberu (Laguda) @Motoonsplace]

A 10-month journey. A dream nurtured at one of Africa's best culinary schools. All leading to this moment.
A spectacular Christmas menu,blending classic techniques with vibrant, feisty flavors that will dazzle you and your loved ones.
Let me bring the feast and you bring Everyone

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

I bless the Lord and glorify his Holy name for the wonders he has done in my family. My son, the one who had been lost to crack and Angel dust for over two years, suddenly returned home on Sunday morning. I was scared at first, thinking he was broke and had come home to rob us blind and sell whatever he could to raise some more money for his habit. I was, however, wrong. He has been sober for over two weeks, and he came home asking me how he could enrol in a Bible School. Brother Gbenga, He is now in PSSBC school 30. The Holy Spirit encountered my son. He said he was asleep when he heard a voice telling him to seek the Lord Jesus and give his life to him. It sounded like a joke at first, but I have confirmed it is not. The Word of prophecy spoken over him that he would return home with the drug addiction dead in his life, has come to pass. God is indeed mighty!

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

If you continue to use his name after you have divorced him, you will never be able to wean yourself off his identity, and you will limit your opportunities to fulfill your destiny under your own identity.
A name means a lot both spiritually and in terms of establishing our identity for the fulfilment of destiny

[Man of Letters. @Letter_to_Jack]

May the Almighty God ease the affairs of everyone that is struggling right now.

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

At 16, you impregnated somebody. You had to drop out of school to work so you could support the baby.
At 19, your baby was three, and his mother had been encouraged to leave the baby with her parents and continue her education.
As soon as you are free of her and the baby, you got another lady pregnant instead of returning to school.
You worked as a petrol attendant for another four years, caring for this lady and the baby.
The lady won the American visa lottery with you as a dependent
Suddenly, you find yourself in the United States of America.

You get to the USA, and the lady says to you, I have had enough of you. Find your path in this country and live your life.

You are free again at the age of 25.
You can work, train yourself through school, or earn a skill that would enhance your productivity.
Your whole life was ahead of you.
But...
You got another lady pregnant and stayed with her for another ten years while raising two children and working three jobs.
One day, this lady looked at you and realised this is the best you will ever be in life.
She wanted more, and she called it quits.
She said she was better off as a single mother collecting food stamps and welfare support from the government than being with a man working three jobs who was a faithful partner but whose best could barely pay the rent.

Now you are thirty-five, and you are free again.
No official marriage or alimony, or child support claims had been filed against you.
You have four children already, and even though you are in America, you are earning peanuts.
You had the option of going to school, learning a skill, and redefining yourself.

You were literally in the land of opportunities.
You met another woman, this time you got married to her and lived with her for fourteen years.
The marriage produced two daughters.
The woman was a successful lawyer who was earning big
You didn’t have to pitch in a penny
She registered the children with her maiden name
She was a feminist, and you were the right kind of male that fitted into her plan.

On the day you clocked 49.
She told you your services were no longer needed.
She gave you a document to sign with the promise that if you sign it, you will be settled with 100,000 dollars to walk away and not contact the children anymore, but if you decide not to sign the divorce document and take up the case in court, she would fight you with everything she has and ensure you lose.
You considered your options and decided by yourself that it is better to walk away
You signed and got your big payday
One of the requirements of the document you signed was that you must leave the state where you both lived and raised the children, and settle down far away from the woman and your children
So you moved to another state
You told yourself it was time to start afresh

You landed in another city. The plan was to rebuild and make something tangible of your life in preparation for your old age
You met with a pastor, and you joined his church
In the course of the service, you received two distinctive prophecies
The first was that God has brought you to your place of enlargement and your streamsof renewal
The second was that you must build up your strength as Jacob did at Bethel and grow your capacity in the place of meditation and aloneness, and you shall experience the prosperity of the Lord in terms of material wealth and fortune beyond your wildest dreams, with which you would live a life of rest in your old age
You didn’t share anything with anybody
You know the prophecy came from a pure source, and it was really addressed to you
The following day, while at the supermarket to get some groceries, you met a lady
You knew her from one of your online Nigerian communities and didn’t know she lived in that city
You spent some time chatting with her, and somehow she ended up in your bed and “fell” pregnant

Even at fifty, you fell into the same pattern you have been falling into since you were sixteen
You have been with the woman for ten years, and you have three children with her
You have since spent your payoff from the last relationship on bills and life
At sixty, you began to wonder why the promise of God towards you has not come to pass
You remember the prophecy that came from a pure source that the land is a stream of renewal unto you
You could testify to the renewal because you were able to build a family as soon as you arrived, but what about the wealth, the prosperity, the abundance, the fortune that would surround you as you grow old?
Has God lied?
You have been faithful in the place of service and worship in the church
You are known as a dedicated worshipper, and you have even been ordained an elder in the church
Why have God’s promises failed?

The fulfilment of the prophecies and the promises of God is not based on long hours of prayer and how much one fears God or worships God.
They are based on obedience.
When Abraham met the Lord, he was given instructions like "Get out of this land and go to a land I will show you.”
Imagine that Abraham didn't leave Ur of the Chaldees but decided to build the biggest temple in the world in honour of the God that appeared to him.
Imagine that Abraham prayed to that God, day and night, and offered great offerings and sacrifices, but refused to leave Ur of the Chaldees.
Would his submission to obedience satisfy God?
Would giving God one million dollars while refusing to do what God said one should do be enough to persuade God to change his mind and give us what we want or desire outside of obedience?

God promised to make Abraham the father of nations.
Would he become the father of nations in Ur of the Chaldees? A nation that was already established according to the old ways of life, with its own culture, tradition, and language?

OBEDIENCE is always better than sacrifice.

Imagine Moses, meeting with God at that burning bush and experiencing the power of God the way he did, only to stay in Midian because he wanted to hear the news of the death of Pharaoh first...
"I know what God told me to do, but there is a right time for everything, and if Pharaoh is still in power, then I fear this must be the wrong time.
I have a warrant out for my arrest, and the statute of limitations on murder is forever. I would be foolish to go to Egypt now. I am not going.... "

Imagine that!

Imagine that you are that Christian who grew up with a pattern of behaviour that is bad for your destiny, and you have been praying to God to help you become somebody in life, but you refuse to let go of this pattern of behaviour...

PS: Dear sir, I listened to the detailed voice note you sent to me and decided to help you reorganize your story from my perspective. That way, you can easily see where things went wrong and, if possible, make some serious adjustments.
If we are living our lives in a certain pattern, and God asks us to change that pattern, it is always for a good reason and to our own benefit
We cannot serve God on our terms.
Only religious people do this, and it leads them down a path of ignorance and self-righteousness
We serve God by obeying his instructions as we are guided by the Holy Spirit daily
Where you erred was in the place of obedience
When God said wait upon me in the place of “meditation and aloneness.”
You didn’t, sir.
You met another lady and got entangled with her the very next day
By dismissing that instruction, you skipped a chapter of your journey that would have redefined your life and changed your story
You continued down the same old path, and the guarantee that brings is that you will get the same result as you have gotten in the past
Is it too late to open that chapter now?
I believe that while there is life, there is still hope
You can still find yourself at the center of God’s will by obeying his instructions in the place of meditation, prayer, and studying the word of God

I recommend that you join PSSBC and spend the next three months in the place of obedience
https://t.co/cbshLxuawM

The class will help you kickstart things, and from there, we trust the Lord to lead you into a place of fulfilment.

If you are reading this and you find yourself seeking the place of destiny fulfilment through the word and by the Spirit of God, you should join in.

Registration closes on Friday, 10th April, 2026

God bless you.

-GSW-

[Motunrayo Suberu (Laguda) @Motoonsplace]

@GbengaWemimo She was my teacher in primary 3 and also my choir mistress. RIP mama ❤️

[Motunrayo Suberu (Laguda) @Motoonsplace]

@leodey4u Recovery of COVID 19 loan. It was transferred to Nirsal Microfinance bank. Them don recover my own too.

[Faith Chiazor @faith_chiazor]

I wan cast one update.

If you want to collect your original WAEC certificate from your school they will charge you 50k~ 90k but you can get it for 5k ~ 8k

•Visit : Waec. org
•Create an account
•Input your details
•Log in
•Just follow the prompts...

It's simple to get. Just have like 8k and either your BVN, international passport or NIN.

• use Concord paper to Print it out

That’s your original Certificate, don't cast it!!
Copied Ugo Mma

#NAZA.

[#DoubtlessThouArtMyFather (Isaiah 63:16) @harrydaniyan]

A couple's wedding day was announced in Church: in 3 months' time.

2 weeks before the wedding, they came to see their Pastor to confess: she was pregnant.

the Pastor told them he wouldn't wed them in his Church again- they had sinned!

They were suspended for 6 months...

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

In MARCH 2025, I experienced first-hand Angels in action as they fished out a lady who duped my clients of over 2 Million Naira and took off since November *2023* .

GSW taught us on a Thursday how to activate the ministry of Angels... using the scripture 2 Kings 6: 1-7
THREE days later on Sunday, Angels brought this lady to me in a very dramatic and deliberate manner... *that I knew it could only be God!!!*

RESTORATION:
By mid-April, restoration of my Travel Consultancy business began…
I have been standing on God’s promises of restoration Amos 9:15 (things are going to happen so fast, your head will swim, one thing fast on the heels of another…)
Without any adverts, individual clients have been coming to me based on referrals…!!

Then a multi-national company that I did business with in *2021* reached out to me…. And boom, I was suddenly earning 6 figures!!

The jobs are just lining up: as I am finishing one order, there are several more waiting!!
WITHOUT advertisements, clients are finding me… It seems like the Angels are bringing them in…👌🏼💃🏼💃🏼

Between April and August, I have personally gifted over 1.5 million Naira in cash.

I’ve introduced several people to PSSBC and also personally sponsored TWO students to PSSBC…

I have been steadily paying off my business Debts and I am now able to set up a structured repayment plan for the remaining Business debts…

Finally, my House rent was due June 1st, and for the first time in nearly SEVEN years- I was able to pay my rent IIn full and in advance
I also testify of numerous Healings!
The sinus infection and allergies that have plagued me for over a decade... Gone!!

Harmattan season (Dust) used to be so terrible for me...but now I can move around freely without medication!

I thank God for leading me to this Ministry... I have learnt boldness in whom I am... I lay hands on the sick wherever I see them: supermarket, office, etc...
I can testify that my Prayer life has moved from zero to 💯...
Thank you Bro Gbenga @⁨Gsw Mtn⁩

I have started operating in the supernatural... Like I said I'm not where I know I ought to be yet, but I will get there!!

Gloryyyyy!!!
God bless you!!

[Motunrayo Suberu (Laguda) @Motoonsplace]

@_mrwill Thank you Lord 🙏🏽

[Ordinary Bishop @ordinary_bishop]

@Teejumolaa There are simple and easy ways to block your account: Use someone's phone and dial *919*911*registered phone number# if you're using @UBAGroup bank, phone number linked to your bank account (*919*911*08012345678#)
Same applied to other banks (bank ussd b4 911)
You're good to go

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

WANTED: NNAEMEKA ROMANUS NWAFOR

There is a rapist and a blackmailer on X
His name is Nnaemeka Romanus Nwafor
Account number 5845301418 Moniepoint
His phone number is 07030834009
His Facebook Account is Da'Ultimate Sports and Fitness
His Instagram account is @da_ultimate_fitness
His name on X is Prince George 042, and his handle is @Daultimatesport
His email address is [email protected]
He is on X, parading himself as a seller of sports equipment
He lures young ladies to his bogus company in Surulere. drugs them and rapes them, and then he takes their pictures and blackmails them for money
The police have been informed and statements written.

When his case was first reported, I reached out to him on X via DM trying to find out if he is innocent of the allegations against him
He blocked me immediately
Yesterday, another victim of his came into my DM on WhatsApp to cry for divine intervention.
I am posting this as a warning to all his other potential victims
Block his handle, unfollow him, repost, and expose him
His recent victims said they searched for his name online, and they couldn't find anything suspicious
They fell victim because his other victims had been silent about his evil deeds out of fear
When I searched, I discovered that @adesojiminkhail had posted about some of his antics on 10/5/2022 at 5:55 pm
Since then, he has not been arrested, and he is still doing his evil under the cover of anonymity
Please let us expose him
I have reported him to X officially.
I would like others to please do the same
I have also spoken to lawyers and security operatives
Many of them claim it is Moniepoint that is still one of the few platforms where fraudsters and criminals operate with impunity
I don't want another person to fall victim to him; this is why I am making this post to clear my conscience and perhaps save another innocent person from falling victim to his evil antics.

I have attached a screenshot of what he probably looked like on his X handle and profile

Thank you

-GSW-

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

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A website dedicated to children and teenagers!

Please check it out

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

The Negotiation

It was his wife who reached out to me.
She sent me a WhatsApp message stating clearly her frustrations with her husband on many issues over the course of their fifteen years of marriage.
She said her husband was a cheat who slept with every available beautiful lady, which made her doubt herself and lose her self-confidence

She said in order to cope with her husband's cheating ways, she devised a means of compensating herself annually by travelling abroad and shopping with as much of his money as she could spend twice a year.
She said something significant happened that year, which was why she decided to reach out to me.
She said she travelled with all five of their children to the USA for the summer holidays while her husband remained in Nigeria.

They had become somewhat estranged, living in the same house but not engaging in any form of sexual activity or even communicating because he kept cheating and doing whatever he liked, and she had started living her life to please herself, because she refused to die because of any man.

While she was in the USA with the children, she sent a message to her husband back in Nigeria that she wanted a divorce as soon as possible, and she would like it to be without any drama.
They were both practically living their separate lives, and she wouldn't contest the divorce as long as he was fair to her.

She said her husband arrived at their townhouse in New York a week later, barely acknowledged her, and two days later, he prepared the children himself in the morning and left New York with them back to Nigeria.
The puzzling thing was that out of their five children, her husband took only the first four children and left the last child with her.

As if that was not enough, barely two weeks after her husband and the four children had returned to Nigeria, she got a text message from him that she should please vacate the townhouse within a week because he had sold the house and the new occupants would be moving in

She said she realised he was systematically planning to render her homeless, and she would not stand for it.
She would have gone to the appropriate authorities to report, but she didn't want to ruin his life without giving him a chance to retrace his steps and do the right thing.

She sent me all his phone numbers and asked me to reach out to him and state her terms clearly for the sake of peace.

I did.
I sent him a message on WhatsApp, introducing myself, and I shared with him the purpose of reaching out to him.
He asked me where I was, and the next day, he came down to see me.
He said his wife had taken a lover in the USA, and she was sleeping with that lover in his townhouse in the USA.
He said he had evidence of this on CCTV, and he was aware that the relationship had been going on for several years.

He said he was sure the child he left with his wife in the USA was not his child, but the child of his wife's lover. whom she brought home to him from the USA five years before, and since then, he has not asked her any questions about the pregnancy, and he has also stopped having any form of sexual relationship with her
He said he had settled it in his heart that they were in a joint parenting relationship

She had taken on a young lover in the USA whom she spent her summers with and he also took lovers in Nigeria at will, while their children remained under their care in Nigeria with the help of domestic staff
He said he had conducted DNA tests on his children and confirmed that the first four were his children, and therefore, he decided to get them from her when she asked for a divorce, and he left her the child that was not his.

He said I should advise her to move on with her lover and child as soon as possible because he had sold his house in the USA, where she usually meets with her lover, and she would be evicted if she does not leave honourably.

I asked him how they allowed issues to degenerate to that level since they were both Christians.
He said she was a very jealous and stubborn woman who would go violent at any slight provocation because he married her.
He said he didn't think she was the marrying kind because she lacked the temperament to be a good wife.
She was always monitoring him and getting into his business from day one of the marriage.
(I understood this to mean he was always cheating, and she refused to settle for this as a wife. This led to constant bickering and fighting, and ultimately, their irreconcilable differences.)

I reached out to her and explained everything the husband had said.
She laughed and said, "Tell him I know all his secrets, I know all his properties, and it will be unwise of him to play with fire. She sent a list of all the properties. They were located in Abuja, Lagos, Port Harcourt, London, New York, Dubai, and held shares in some major international companies.

She said she wanted the townhouse in New York, five shops in Abuja, another house in Dubai, the inheritance of his son that he left with her and some cash in local and foreign currency as settlement or he would be forced to turn into a whistleblower and reach out to the appropriate authorities with evidence of his unclean source of wealth which was from government coffers.
She said most of the properties were held under aliases, and some were even in her name, but she noticed he had sold most of those in her name off in the last two weeks after she asked for a divorce

She said she wanted properties for the child with her because her husband, being mean and inconsiderate, had separated the child from the other children, and she still hadn't been able to come up with a proper explanation that she could give to the child that would not traumatize him.
This also means her husband would most likely not make provisions for that child in his will, and she wouldn't stand for that
She raised all the children together, and she wouldn't even imagine that any right-thinking parent would treat a child the way he has treated their last child

I reached out to him and relayed the message.

He said nobody can instruct him to give out inheritances to his children while he yet lives, so she should forget about properties for the child.
The child was not his, and she could give the child an inheritance from her own properties.

He said he had bought a modest apartment for her in her name in New Jersey, where she and her child could move to, and he would credit her account with some money once she agreed to his terms and signed the divorce settlement.
He said he would have given her more, but he got his notice of retirement that very morning and had nothing to lose if the issue became public, as she had been threatening.

He also said everything he had bought for her while they were married, including houses, cars, shops, jewellery, shares, investments, and other personal effects, was hers to keep

She checked out the terms and signed the divorce settlement.

She got married to her lover and the father of her last child in the USA a few months later.

He never remarried.
He said he would raise his children by himself and live out the rest of his life without the encumbrances of marriage and its attending drama.

PS: Marriage is simple when the love between a couple waxes hot, and the individuals in it find satisfaction in each other
When the fires of love begin to burn wildly to the point where either or both parties decide to seek solace or comfort outside the union, it becomes very easy for love to turn to contempt and mistrust to become the order of the day.
We must strive to love each other wholly and healthily as unto the Lord, as believers in a union.
We also should not forget that ill-gotten wealth comes with its own peculiar sorrows and griefs.
There is nothing as sweet as enjoying the fruits of one's labour

-GSW-

[Arojinle @arojinle1]

Onions, garlic, chocolates and grapes are bad for them.Don't give your cat any food that contains them.

Never cut your cat's whiskers. They might get into places that they won't be able to come out of. They use their whiskers to measure if they can fit into a place.

Paracetamol is VERY toxic to them and it will kill them within a day or two. Don't give it to them. If you think they're in pain, consult a veterinarian.

Cats only mew for humans. They don't mew at one another.

Your cat’s purr could have healing powers. Their purr falls within the 25 and 150 Hertz frequencies and sound within this range have been found to promote healing.

The highest number of kittens a cat gave birth to at once is 19.

If you love cats, you're an ailurophile. The word is derived from the Greek word for cat, ailouros, and the suffix -phile, meaning "lover." If you hate cats or are scared of them, you're ailurophobe

[Revd Dr Olaleye Oluwafemi @pfemiolaleye]

If you were posted to the North for NYSC and you wanted to know the counsel of whether you should go or not go .

Don’t go !

It is clearly not safe and this government doesn’t really care to make things safe .

Stay at home and do the following instead of risking your life :

1. Count beans.

2. Play Ludo .

3. Learn a skill .

4. Attend Resurge Festival 😉😁

[#DoubtlessThouArtMyFather (Isaiah 63:16) @harrydaniyan]

I was at the Mechanic's Workshop in 2019 a week to the Presidential Election.

It was a Saturday & several other guys brought their vehicles for fixing too.
About 8 of us sat somewhere, having a talk as our cars were being fixed.

Naturally, the talk got to POLITICS...

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

I travel to Kwara every year since 2019 for both the youth and the adult convention of a dearly beloved ministry that not only accepted me as their own but are also part of my story as a minister of the gospel.
What I saw yesterday was unacceptable by any means.
Christians in Kwara must not die like chickens
I can never die like that…
I mean…
I am no Rambo but I won’t ever hide in a corner or under the bush or in a room to get shot for free
I am not a hero
I just won’t go out that way
I won’t
I cannot
Nigerian Christian’s should not be this docile
Especially those in Kwara and the middle belt
Your Bible is not of any use at this moment
The Word of God in your heart is what you need right now
Then you need to bring out your Dane guns and your machetes, swords and daggers
I am not kidding
You need to borrow a leaf from Nehemiah
Whole communities must come together
You must fight back
Fight!
Fight!!
Fight!!!
These terrorists have not faced any form of tangible resistance yet and they should
Nehemiah got swords and other weapons for his men
He made sure the walls were built despite all the efforts of Sanballat and Tobias
You are responsible for your lives, please don’t die like chickens
Don’t just lie down and throw in the towel
Don’t pose and say How do I want to look after I am dead
Fight to live
Resist the enemy
Bloody the nose of the assailant
They bleed too and they die
Hunt them down
Release the blood hounds and tear them to pieces
You belong to the Lord

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

Hammertized

I know a lady who went to see her best friend off at the airport
The best friend was travelling to the USA alone, but her husband and children accompanied her to the airport
Being the best friend, she also came to the airport directly from her office to see her friend off
The friend's flight took off at about midnight
The lady turned to her best friend's husband and asked him what his plans were for getting back home
The man and his family live in another city and would most likely not be driving home that night
The man told her he planned to stay in a hotel with the children till the next morning before going back home
He told her he and the family were in the hotel all day, and it was from there that they set out for the airport some hours before
She said okay and jumped into the car with them
When they got to the hotel, the man's children had already slept off in the car
He had to carry them one by one from the car to their hotel room while she went to book a room for herself at the reception
When he was done taking care of the children, he went off to his room to sleep
Some minutes later, he heard a knock on his door
It was his wife's best friend
She said she was told the amount of money she had to pay for just a few hours' sleep, and she found it ridiculous
She wondered if she could just sleep on the couch in his room till daybreak, the time was already a few minutes past one am
The man said Okay
The man was already half asleep, and this remained so till morning
When the man woke up the next morning, he found his wife's best friend lying next to him on the bed, totally naked
He didn't touch her
He got out of bed and sat on the couch
He and the lady had no prior relationship as such
She was his wife's best friend, but she lived and worked in Lagos
She was single and earned a lot of money from her thriving career
This was all he knew about her
He and his family lived in Ibadan, and they had been there for years
The lady had never visited, and he he never had a one-on-one conversation with her before
How she came to be on his bed, totally naked, without any underwear on was a mystery to him
The hotel provided night robes, he saw that she had worn one and then somehow removed it and thrown it to the foot of the bed before climbing into it
He stayed on the couch until it was morning.
He expected the lady to stir and get up to leave
She didn't
He left the room to check on the children and take them for breakfast
When he returned, he met the lady in the bathrobe, working on her computer
He said "Good morning"
She said, "Good morning, I hope you were not too embarrassed to see me in all my glory when you woke up this morning. I am sorry about that. I don't wear underwear as a rule unless I am on my period, and I also won't be able to sleep unless I am butt naked.
I know you must have felt a bit uncomfortable.
I am sorry about that.
The man said, It was fine.
She asked him when he and his children would be checking out of the hotel
He told her they had a wedding to attend in Lagos that weekend and would be in the hotel for four days
He asked her when she would be going home
She said, "If you don't mind, you can go on your errands for today. By the time you get back, I will be long gone."
He left with the children for the wedding rehearsals at Lekki by 11 AM
He has the hotel room card key with him
All she had to do was leave whenever she was ready and close the door behind her
He and the children got back to the hotel at about 10 pm
He settled the children in their room
When he got to his room, he met her, still in the hotel bathrobe, lying on the bed
He asked her why she had not gone home
She said she worked remotely that day, and because it was a hotel and they had both electricity and the internet, she had to take advantage of it to the full
By the time she was done, it was 10 pm, and the gates to her estate would have been locked
So she was stuck with him for a second night in a row
He said it was unacceptable
"What if the children came knocking and found you in the room? What if there is a fire emergency or any kind of emergency, and we all have to rush out of the hotel?
How would I explain your presence here?
What do you think my wife will think if she hears you were in the same room with me two nights in a row?
Who in their right senses would believe that there is nothing going on between us?
Please don't put me in a situation in which I would not be able to explain my actions without compromising my integrity.
I urge you to please dress up and leave."
She got up, picked up her clothes, and waltzed into the bathroom without saying a word
She was there for over two hours
He waited long and hard for her to come out of the bathroom until he eventually fell asleep
When he woke up, still fully dressed, she was back on the bed, fast asleep, and butt naked like the day she came out of her mother's womb
It was already 2 AM
He moved to the couch and slept there
He was livid with anger, but there was nothing he could do
When he woke up the next morning, she was already awake
She told him she would like to explain herself
He said she didn't need to
He just wanted her gone
It was morning, and her estate gates would have been opened by that time
He had not had a good sleep for two nights in a row because of her
She told him she was squatting with someone, and the person had travelled out of town without dropping the keys for her
She said the person would be back the following day, and she would sleep on the couch that night if he would permit her to spend one more night
She promised she wouldn't make any trouble, and she would stay out of his way
She said she had been putting some money together to rent an apartment of her own, but the house rent had skyrocketed
She begged him to please let her stay with him for one more day
He reasoned that he had only two more nights at the hotel
He had a wedding to attend that day with the children, and they would most likely come back to the hotel late.
He told her she should have been open with him instead of playing sly
She apologised
He and the children went off to the wedding
They returned to the hotel at about 6 pm
The children were tired and barely ate much before sleeping off
He got to the room, changed in the bathroom, and went to lie on the bed
A few minutes later, she joined him on the bed and whispered, "Thank you" in his ear.
He didn't open his eyes; he opened his left arm to tap her on the back, and she slipped right into the arm and cuddled him.
They were in that sidelock for several minutes before she kissed him
He kissed her back, and everywhere turned to liquid metal
It was as if all the restraint of the past few days created a sense of urgency that compelled exploration
He hit her like a hammer to an anvil, and she gushed like water from a rock
When they were done the first time, he hit her again
When they were done the second time, he hit her again
It was as if he was determined to constipate on it once he had tasted of it
It happened six times from around 7 pm till 7 am the next morning
She left at about 10 am
He and the children checked out at about 11 am
The next weekend, she got to Ibadan on Friday
He put his children to bed in his house, waited until they had slept off, and drove to her hotel
He hit her again all night
She was there throughout the weekend, working by day and gushing forth by night
This became a pattern for three years
The man's wife got to the USA and didn't call more than twice
Her second call was to tell him she had no plan of returning to Nigeria, and she would urge him to move on with his life and find another woman to marry who would accept him and the children
He didn't take it too badly because he was already consoling himself with her best friend
The best friend expected him to extend a hand of love, friendship, and intimacy to her as a process of the evolution of their relationship
He didn't
The only thing he did with her was sleep with her
If she says, "Can we have a conversation?"
He would say, "About what?" and pull up her skirt
If she says, "How has your day been?"
He would say, "I just want to crunch you" and then he would go ahead and crunch her.
The best friend knew his wife had left the marriage
Her friend told her, but the man sleeping with her never did
He never broached the subject of courting her or getting married to her
They never went on a proper date where he would treat her like a princess and make butterflies go crazy in her belly
He reduced her to sending nude pictures during the week from the most unusual places and spreading her legs every weekend at odd hours
He never brought her into contact with his children and he went nowhere with her during the day
Everybody in her life believed her to be single while she knew she was having more sex than most married people with him every month
After three years, she asked for a definition of the relationship
He replied her that they never had a relationship, it was just sex.
She asked him if he never considered remarrying
He told her he already met the person he wanted to get married to and the wedding ceremony would be taking place soon
She asked who the lucky person was
He told her she does not know the lady
She got angry, he turned her around and lifted her skirt and she gushed
She complained that all he does with her was lift her skirt
He lifted her skirt again
She didn't know what to do
Sex with him was fantastic but she wanted marriage and she had come to get used to him and to love him in her own way but he was not seeing her that way
She tried to correct his perspective of her but all her efforts failed
He slept with her till the eve of his wedding
She had promised not to go to him but somehow she still carried her bag and booked herself into the hotel he was lodged in before the wedding
She called him after midnight and he went to her room
She felt she could make one last attempt to reason with him
He was marrying a lady ten years younger than her and she was sure he was not sleeping with the lady with the same intensity with which he was hammering her
She knew he must feel something for her and she wanted to help him find it
She had planned what she would say and how she would talk to him so that he wouldn't make the mistake of marrying the wrong person
Before she could open her mouth, he had turned her around and mounted her from behind
Sex with him was a liberating experience for her
He would mount, dismount and walk away to the edge of the bed and say something like "Bring that V-boot to me"
And she would crawl on all fours to him in reverse and give him the V boot.
All the things she had told herself or promised herself she would stop doing with him were the things she did.
They had sex almost every weekend for three years and they had no meaningful conversation whatsoever.
When he was done for the fifth time that night, he got out of her bed and said "I am off to my wedding in a few hours, will I see you next week as usual?"
She couldn't say a word
She just shook her head and hot tears poured forth from her eyes
He walked up to her, hugged her and ran out of her room.
That was the last time she saw him
She cried as she watched the wedding on Youtube being streamed live and she cried every day as her body craved him and she had to wean herself off him
She wondered why he never saw her as someone he could be married to
He never even gave her a chance and it hurts her deeply.

PS: A man can sleep with a woman so well that she would fall in love with him
A woman can sleep with a man so well that he would fall in love with her
A man can also sleep with a woman so well and feel nothing for her
A woman can also sleep with a man so well and feel nothing for him
Good sex can lead to sweet love
Good sex can also lead to indifference
The assumption that once you get into somebody's pant, you control the key to their soul is very wrong
A person can be in love with a A and still have earthshattering sex with Z without feeling anything for Z
Using sex to negotiate love is an unwise move
Once two people start having sex without the proper foundation and emotional involvement, it is most likely that they would only always see each other as sex buddies
A person can be sleeping with you and at the same time he or she can find another person to fall in love with and get married to
If he or she didn't see you that way, there is nothing you can do about it.

IN the pictures below are the Nobles and the miracle twins. The first two pictures were taken last year in Lagos while the second set were taken in Abuja this year.
The twins are big girls now and we all looked younger.
Glory be to God for a victorious 2025!

-GSW-