I’m a 42-year-old woman from Ibadan, married to a 30 year-old man from Enugu.
We got married late last year.
He lives in my house.
He eats my food.
He spends my money freely.
Honestly, none of that has ever been my problem. I’m a self-made makeup artist and brand influencer, and money has never been the issue.
The real challenge is his behavior.
This man acts like a child emotionally. Whenever we have even a small disagreement, he goes silent. He keeps malice for days… sometimes weeks. No communication. No maturity. Just silence.
Most times, I end up apologizing—even when I’m not the one at fault.
There were times I bought him flowers just to make peace.
Other times, I had to buy gifts before he would talk to me again.
Once, after a serious argument, I bought him an iPhone just so he could come around.
There was also a time we fought and he smashed my glass table in anger. I replaced it. And still, I was the one who apologized.
I have always been the one begging, fixing, calming things down—whether I was wrong or not.
What finally pushed me to seek advice is what happened two nights ago.
We had a heated argument. In his anger, he smashed my phone, packed his bags, and walked out of the house.
Since then, both of his phone numbers have been switched off. I’ve tried calling endlessly—nothing.
I am tired.
Tired of the childish reactions.
Tired of apologizing all the time.
Tired of paying emotionally, financially, and mentally just to keep peace.
But the truth is… I love this man deeply.
Please, I’m begging—don’t advise me to divorce him. I can’t go back to singlehood. I’ve seen enough hardship out there.
I just want to know:
What should I do?
Please keep me anonymous.
Mikel Arteta was not meant to coach yet.
He finished his playing career quietly.
No farewell tour.
No coaching offers waiting.
Then Pep Guardiola called.
Manchester City.
Learning as an assistant coach.
Arteta arrived early every day.
Set up rondos.
Moved cones.
Adjusted spacing.
He stayed after sessions.
Studied build up patterns.
Defensive shapes.
Pressing triggers.
For three years, he learned beside Guardiola.
Listened more than he spoke.
Absorbed everything.
Arsenal took the risk.
First head coaching job.
One of the biggest clubs in England.
The squad was fractured.
Late arrivals.
Poor fitness.
Low standards.
Arteta wrote rules immediately.
Exact training times.
Dress standards.
Behavior expectations.
When players ignored them, he acted.
Removed captains.
Moved on senior names.
Results did not come fast.
Losses stacked up.
Fans turned.
He kept the plan.
Clear roles.
Clear principles.
Young players became leaders.
Saka.
Martinelli.
Saliba.
He rebuilt trust season by season.
Training intensity rose.
Consistency followed.
An FA Cup came first.
Then Champions League football returned.
Then title challenges.
From assistant with cones
To leader with conviction.
Not because he rushed the process.
But because he stayed firm.
Arteta's story shows:
success only follows high standards.
Husband decapitates his wife and parades her head then is forgiven by her parents.
A man beheaded his wife, whom he had married when she was just 12, and walked through the street carrying her severed head.
He has been sentenced to a mere eight years in prison in Iran.
Mona Heydari, a mother of one, was only 17 when she was pulled from a car outside her family home and murdered in February 2022, according to court documents.
Her husband Sajjad Heydari, along with his brother Heydar, committed the horrific murder in Ahvaz, the capital of the south-western Khuzestan Province.
A judiciary spokesperson disclosed the lenient sentence was given because Mona's parents had "pardoned" him for the murder instead of demanding retribution.
“Sharia law is for Muslims only”.
6 RECENT EXAMPLES WHY THIS STATEMENT IS A DIRTY DISGUSTING LIE.
1. Deborah a Christian non-Muslim was murdered and burnt to death in Sokoto for ‘blasphemy’ by islamist barbaric bigoted terrorists in 2022 simply because she said a class WhatsApp group should not be turned into an arena for Islamic broadcasts.
“Sharia law is for Muslims only”.
2. But in 2022, a Christian woman in Bauchi called Rhoda Jatau was thrown into prison for 18months on charges of “blasphemy”. What was her actual offence? She shared posts on WhatsApp that condemned the brutal barbaric lynching of Deborah by animalistic lunatic terrorists. Pls google Rhoda Jatau and read about her sad case. It took public outcry to get her released.
3. But in March 2025, four northern Nigerian states—Bauchi, Katsina, Kano, and Kebbi—ordered all public and private schools to close for 5weeks to observe the Muslim holy month of Ramadan. This was a decision that affected little school kids across the states- even Christian children.
“Sharia law is for Muslims only”
4. But just 2months ago, in September 2025, Kano State terrorist Hisbah Police officials confiscated and will destroy at least 1,600 bottles of assorted beer. Just 2 months ago. This is not the first time. This won’t be the last time. Why is Hisbah destroying and targeting beer meant for non-Muslims if not that this is shariah law enforced on everyone regardless of their faith?
“Sharia law is for Muslims only”.
5. But just in March 2025, the notorious terrorist Hisbah Police arrested about 60 young people for “indecent haircuts” and also arrested commercial tricycle riders for allegations of carrying male and female passengers together. This was just 8months ago.
“Sharia law is for Muslims only”.
6. And now coming to you specifically Bashir, in 2015, you personally publicly supported the death penalty to execute and murder some young people in Kano over ‘blasphemy’. Your tweet is still everywhere for all to see. And in 2024, you still defended this position.
I will provide evidence and links to all of the above news/information that I have stated in the tweets that follow this one- to convince anyone who reads this just so they know what an unrepentant lying propagandist that you are.
Bashir, why do you lie so much, so frequently and so effortlessly? Is there no punishment in Islam for lying, and lying so brazenly, so shamelessly and so publicly?
Brother why do you lie so much? Why???
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Yoruba people get in here!
Frame 1: Beautiful Yoruba names you can give your girl child.
Frame 2: Beautiful Yoruba names you can give your boy child.
Ditch those English names and give your child names with deep meanings that stays forever. Orúkọ ènì ló ń rọ ènì oooo
Salafi don’t like Sunni. Sunni hate Ahmadiyya. Izala don’t like Shia. Every sect swears they’ve got the ‘true’ Islam. Different sects, different versions of the same religion. Truth is, we’re more divided than we’re willing to admit. And unity? It's just a word we use when we want others to shut up and agree.
They came for BIKO!
They came for Mahlangu!
They came for Sankara!
They came for Nkrumah!
They came for Lumumba!
They came for Samora!
They came for Gaddafi!
They came for HANI!
They want Traore’s Head!
They want Malema’s Head!
Next will be YOU & ME!
We MUST ORGANISE, FIGHT, RESIST!
A thread on Burkina Faso's 🇧🇫 President Ibrahim Traore, 37, and his leadership after two years since the coup🧵
1. In 2024, President Traoré launched the Postal Bank of Burkina Faso with a capital of approximately $25 million & the Treasury Deposit Bank.
NORTHERN GOVERNORS AND THEIR ETHNICITY:
1. Adamawa State – Ahmadu Umaru Fintiri (MARGHI)
2. Bauchi State – Bala Mohammed (FULANI)
3. Benue State – Rev. Fr. Hyacinth Iormem Alia (TIV)
4. Borno State – Engr. Prof. Babagana Zulum (KANURI)
5. Gombe State – Muhammad Inuwa Yahaya (FULANI)
6. Jigawa State – Umar Namadi (FULANI)
7. Kaduna State – Uba Sani (FULANI)
8. Kano State – Abba Kabir Yusuf (FULANI)
9. Katsina State – Dikko Umaru Radda (FULANI)
10. Kebbi State – Nasir Idris (FULANI)
11. Kogi State – Usman Ododo (EBIRA)
12. Kwara State – AbdulRahman AbdulRasaq (FULANI)
13. Nasarawa State – Abdullahi Sule (FULANI)
14. Niger State – Mohammed Umar Bago (NUPE)
15. Plateau State – Caleb Mutfwang (MWANGHAVUL)
16. Sokoto State – Ahmed Aliyu (FULANI)
17. Taraba State – Arch. Agbu Kefas (JUKUN)
18. Yobe State – Mai Mala Buni (KANURI)
19. Zamfara State – Dauda Lawal (FULANI)
HERE IS THE ANALYSIS:
Northern Nigeria has 19 states and 19 governors. Out of these, 10 governors are Fulanis, while the remaining 9 governors represent over 300 other ethnic groups in the region.
Now, consider this:
The Hausa ethnic group, with a population of over 66 million according to World Atlas—that’s over 55% of the entire Northern population—has no single governor.
All their states are ruled by Fulanis, who have a population of just 13 million, barely 11% of the Northern population.
Nigeria is composed of three major ethnic groups: Hausa, Yoruba, and Igbo with Hausas having the largest population.
Yoruba have 6 governors,
Igbo have 5 governors,
But Hausas have not even one—because the Fulanis have politically and strategically enclaved them.
With this arrangement, why won't the Fulani bandits k!ll, maim and rape Hausa and other tribes peacefully and wantonly with utmost impunity?
The Hausas accepted the Fulanis peacefully, embracing them due to shared religious beliefs. But eventually, their traditional rulers were eliminated, and a Fulani oligarchy was installed.
Today, the political leadership of the Hausas is no longer theirs. Are simply reduced to beggars and gate keepers. They are robbed of even education.
Hausas have become tools in the hands of Fulanis during elections. They are mere shadows in their own land, despite their numbers.
Currently they are going through unimaginable hardship, and those of us who understand the Hausa language know the kind of lamentations they are voicing daily.
It's so funny that even Kanuri people are wiser than them. They never allow Fulanis to conquer Borno and Yobe State. That's why they can still raise their head up in their own land.
This conquest is not coincidence—it is an agenda.
They have already succeeded in Kwara and Nasarawa States—both in the Middle Belt—and are tactically spreading their tentacles to other States in our religion and extending down to the south.
This agenda has been in motion for over 200 years.
Just recently, it was funny that Benue traditional leaders, instead of acting decisively, were holding peace meetings with the same people everyone knows will never honor such peace.
You cannot negotiate peace with someone who is intentional about hurting you.
You cannot negotiate with terrorists.
Once they settle in your community, their next move is to seize your traditional and political leadership, and eventually, they will seek to erase your identity and history.
I was stunned when I saw a Fulani man contesting for the House of Representatives for Akwanga/Nasarawa Eggon/Wamba Federal Constituency. Imagine that. When I raised concerns, an Eggon friend replied, “His mother is Eggon.”
What a level of blindness!
That is exactly how the agenda works—they come to graze, settle, infiltrate, blend, and then rob you of your land and leadership.
Benue State must wake up—before it’s too late.
If you are in doubt about my research do it yourself and the outcome will shock you.
Alexander Abba
“After This 30 Days Movement, I Know The Government Will Send The Nigerian Armed Forces After Us To Pick Us Up One After The Other. But This Is My Message To The Nigeria Police, Army, DSS”. - Lady
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